I need some advice/reassurance..
I am currently in a LDR with my boyfriend of 7 months and we live 5 hours apart (in terms of time differences). He's been going out every other day with his best friend and best friend's girlfriend. A month ago, best friend's girlfriend's friend (okay I know it's confusing but bear with me) started joining them so it became a 4 man group. I was fine with him going out with them. According to him, the friend of the girlfriend might like him and I would jokingly tease him that he can leave me for her if he wants to and he reassures me that he won't cheat on me.
We had a massive argument yesterday nearly resulting in us breaking up. We are fine now but when I was talking to him this morning, he mentioned that the friend called him yesterday when I went to bed (I'm 5 hours ahead) and asks if everything's alright. I might be a little paranoid here but if someone, especially a girl calls you on the same day asking if you're alright after a major argument, she is up to something isn't it? What made me more suspicious is that he's going out with that same group of friends again the next day, so if she wants to know if he's alright, she could have just ask him the very next day (today).
He keeps reassuring me that he won't cheat on me and he loves me but I still can't help being jealous coz he sees her every other day while I've not seen him in months. Apparently she is always extra nice to him but he thinks that she is just being courteous.
Also, when we had our argument yesterday, he was out with his friends so they knew we were fighting. His friends said to him that I'm trying to control him by buying him stuff (I bought him a gaming mouse and t-shirts). That really hurt me because the reason why I bought those for him is because I think of him all the time and when I go out and see something I know he'll like I buy it for him. As for the gaming mouse, it is much cheaper to buy it here in Asia compared to Britain (about £10 cheaper). His friends hate me now because they think I'm a controlling shallow bitch when everything I did for him was out of love.
I know we made up now, but what he said yesterday still hurts. I do admit I have quite a temper and I can get offended quite easily by simple things but I am really hurt that he thinks I'm trying to blackmail him by buying him stuff. I am trying to change by being less jealous/possessive. He is my first ever relationship and I just got too attached to him...