I'm sorry fellow LDRers if this alienates you all
but I have a question and didn't want to sicken my IRL friends.
Has anyone else found that the "honeymoon phase" wasn't a thing in their relationship? It seems to have come up in a lot of relationship threads recently, and the more I read about it, the more I just don't recognise it at all.
I've not been with my boyfriend a short time, it's been
5 years - but I am still enthralled, amazed and excited about him, like all of the time. He is my go-to happy thought. I think he is literally the dreamiest and nicest best person in the world. I am quite ridiculous when it comes to him. Our relationship has grown and changed over the years, but not in a way which diminishes these gross, soppy feelings of mine.
Is this an LDR thing? Like distance makes the heart grow fonder? Does anyone else feel the same?
The big question: is everything going to change when we live together really soon? It's crazy, I have literally been looking forward to and fantasising about this end goal
forever, but now I'm a bit scared our relationship is going to radically change and these feelings will go away. I feel like he deserves for me to feel this way forever and I never want to be less crazy about him.
I know this is a really barftastic, pathetic sort of anti-problem and I am sorry.. just basically curious in case anyone in the same position could fill me on what it was like when they lived together. I'm starting to feel paranoid our relationship is somehow fed by the distance! Like we'll have to simulate the distance when we live together! It's been so long, I've never really known not being in an LDR with him.
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