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Do you see your life as being fairly easy or difficult?

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Original post by Robbie242
Hard lad. I have a sneaking suspicion that your outlook on life combined with your looks is making you hate life. No girl has ever asked me out, I've never asked a girl out, I've never kissed a girl or gone anywhere with girls but you don't see me feeling sorry for myself on every forum. Just lighten up a bit, its very annoying when you make sexist accusations based on 1 or 2 small experiences.

I bet your also sexually frustrated from abstaining from porn


No, it's just my looks that make me hate life.
"Sexist accusations"? Like what? And "based on 1 or 2 small experiences"? No, it's based on my WHOLE LIFE experience, particularly the last 7 years.

And I don't "abstain" from porn. I have never felt the need to watch it. What's wrong with that?
Original post by mentalhealthvict
Just because we're from the Western world doesn't mean we're better than others on the planet


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I never said that. But we certainly have it better.
Original post by Maid Marian
No, it's just my looks that make me hate life.
"Sexist accusations"? Like what? And "based on 1 or 2 small experiences"? No, it's based on my WHOLE LIFE experience, particularly the last 7 years.

And I don't "abstain" from porn. I have never felt the need to watch it. What's wrong with that?


You claimed that men who are ugly have it easier than ugly girls. You assume that by virtue of being male, one faces less discrimination. Which while it may be a stretch to call sexist, is utterly ignorant and moronic.

Now, I must admit, I feel like we are ganging up on you so I'll stop replying now. Out of the tiny shred of civility I have left.
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Original post by DiddyDec
Been harder then most people on this forum without a doubt. I'm surprised I have lasted so long.


Sounds serious. Do you want to talk about it? Sometimes it helps. :h:
Reply 84
Original post by Maid Marian
No, it's just my looks that make me hate life.
"Sexist accusations"? Like what? And "based on 1 or 2 small experiences"? No, it's based on my WHOLE LIFE experience, particularly the last 7 years.

And I don't "abstain" from porn. I have never felt the need to watch it. What's wrong with that?


Sure, whilst people who are also ''ugly'' are loving life, you choose to hate life, I have no sympathy.

Sexist accusations saying that girls have it worse and that for men its a minature problem, people would define me as fairly ugly and yes it is quite problematic especially in social situations but I don't give a **** anymore.

I meant to say as in you've heard 1 or two experiences, your own experience and others, so you can't base it off everything. People who know they can't improve their looks focus on other things that make them desirable and successful, you always focus on the negative. Stop being a negative nancy :tongue:

Nothing is wrong with that, just saying you seem frustrated a lot and getting off/pleasuring yourself can help (at least it does for me, sorry to be crude) :colondollar:
Reply 85
Almost all problems I have are created by me and they might have been solved by me had I had greater willpower at some point in the past. So, no.
Original post by The Aesthete
You claimed that men who are ugly have it easier than ugly girls. You assume that by virtue of being male, one faces less discrimination. Which while it may be a stretch to call sexist, is utterly ignorant and moronic.


Because it's absolute, 100% truth! Ugly males DO 100% face less discrimination, it's incredibly ignorant of YOU to think otherwise! :rolleyes:
Reply 87
Original post by Maid Marian
Because it's absolute, 100% truth! Ugly males DO 100% face less discrimination, it's incredibly ignorant of YOU to think otherwise! :rolleyes:


no males desire someone with an attitude like yours. I can understand 20-30% easier but 100% easier please get your stats right, your going to do maths at university for god sake.

All you come across as is butthurt, and people don't tend to get into relationships with butthurt people
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Difficult. My current level of knowledge/reasoning ability is below par, and I'm trying to improve on that! My mind is all over the place at the moment
. It's like there is no organisations to my thoughts and sometimes when I have an idea in my head I fail to express it in a way that makes sense in English! (English is my 2nd language, however I wouldn't use that as an excuse. ...)Though I think my ideas are fairly good ones! But I just can't express them in words!
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Original post by Robbie242
Sure, whilst people who are also ''ugly'' are loving life, you choose to hate life, I have no sympathy.

Sexist accusations saying that girls have it worse and that for men its a minature problem, people would define me as fairly ugly and yes it is quite problematic especially in social situations but I don't give a **** anymore.

I meant to say as in you've heard 1 or two experiences, your own experience and others, so you can't base it off everything. People who know they can't improve their looks focus on other things that make them desirable and successful, you always focus on the negative. Stop being a negative nancy :tongue:

Nothing is wrong with that, just saying you seem frustrated a lot and getting off/pleasuring yourself can help (at least it does for me, sorry to be crude) :colondollar:


I don't want your sympathy.

It is far, far worse to be an ugly girl than an ugly male. It's fact, and certainly not sexist to say. A woman's worth is based on her looks, how pretty and how attractive she is. If she is ugly then she is worthless. So you imagine being an ugly female and imagine how it is possible to *not* hate life?

I am frustrated, but I don't need or want porn. All I want is beauty.
Reply 90
Original post by Maid Marian
I don't want your sympathy.

It is far, far worse to be an ugly girl than an ugly male. It's fact, and certainly not sexist to say. A woman's worth is based on her looks, how pretty and how attractive she is. If she is ugly then she is worthless. So you imagine being an ugly female and imagine how it is possible to *not* hate life?

I am frustrated, but I don't need or want porn. All I want is beauty.


See your unresponsive to constructive criticism. Bull****, can you stop bringing out all of the sexist assumptions your making, I've being working at the Bank of England and the male to female ratio is 50/50. So please tell me if its all based on their looks why do they require degrees and expert knowledge in certain fields?

And yes some of them are what you'd catagorise as ugly. Quite easy actually, you just try blame everything on your gender, when your not seeing the bigger picture ugly people who don't give a **** do well, preoccupied people like you with their looks and shallowness to any other form of appreciation is what means you won't do well in any situation. Please lighten up.

You can't always get what you want as they say. Deal with it, live with what you have and make the best out of yourself, smash your degree and meet someone like minded, your like 18 your life isn't over for a long amount of years
Reply 91
Original post by The Aesthete
You claimed that men who are ugly have it easier than ugly girls. You assume that by virtue of being male, one faces less discrimination. Which while it may be a stretch to call sexist, is utterly ignorant and moronic.

Now, I must admit, I feel like we are ganging up on you so I'll stop replying now. Out of the tiny shred of civility I have left.


A noble position to take, I respect your generosity in a scenario where there is an onslaught of sexist remarks
Hard in what sense? Physically hard? Mentally hard? It's a really vague question, and open to so much interpretation. It's a bit of both!


My life is hard because I have a newborn baby, a 3 year old, a 5 year old, and a 7 year old to contend with. (Anybody who thinks looking after four young children is easy, is dreaming!) I have to rely on "adult entertainment" to bring money in, and my husband has mobility problems.

But my life is easy because I have my own house, my own car, a loving family, no major health problems, etc.

I don't dislike my life, but many people wouldn't be able to hack it, so it's totally subjective.
Reply 93
Original post by Robbie242
Sure, whilst people who are also ''ugly'' are loving life, you choose to hate life, I have no sympathy.

Sexist accusations saying that girls have it worse and that for men its a minature problem, people would define me as fairly ugly and yes it is quite problematic especially in social situations but I don't give a **** anymore.

I meant to say as in you've heard 1 or two experiences, your own experience and others, so you can't base it off everything. People who know they can't improve their looks focus on other things that make them desirable and successful, you always focus on the negative. Stop being a negative nancy :tongue:

Nothing is wrong with that, just saying you seem frustrated a lot and getting off/pleasuring yourself can help (at least it does for me, sorry to be crude) :colondollar:


Go on son!

I couldn't agree more. Some people just have the 'it always rains on me' philosophy going. Most people have the same insecurities and problems; we just view and react to them differently.
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Yeah of course I would say everyone is having a hard time in life some worse than others but if you count your blessings i.e. look at whats not happened to you i.e. not left homeless, on the streets etc,,, you really appreciate life and forget about your difificulty and you think to yourself what Im experiencing is nothing compared to others
try it always :smile:
Original post by Maid Marian
Because it's absolute, 100% truth! Ugly males DO 100% face less discrimination, it's incredibly ignorant of YOU to think otherwise! :rolleyes:


Can you prove that in anyway? That and the idea that a woman's worth is completely dependent on how attractive they are.
Reply 96
Original post by chef
Go on son!

I couldn't agree more. Some people just have the 'it always rains on me' philosophy going. Most people have the same insecurities and problems; we just view and react to them differently.


Haha thanks, its being building up over time. Literally 80% of her posts.

Definitely a good point to make, I don't know how exactly it feels to be Maid Marian but I sure as hell would just have a **** it attitude and do whatever I want in order to be happy if I was her .
Reply 97
I would say everyone has difficult times in their life and everyone has different opinions on what is difficult! I have definitely had some hard times but the good times help balance them out and in comparison to people who are homeless or living in poverty I am fairly lucky!
Life's hard for me. Has been for a while. Most of my hardships are self-inflicted, I'll confess; my insecurities constantly hold me back and I've ended up a depressive, self-hating, self-defeating little bugger. In saying that, though, the hand that God dealt me, as it were, could've been kinder. I've had several personality disorders for a long time and very few redeeming features, if any. I'd love to feel, well, loved. By whom doesn't really matter (preferably a girl, but that's another story).

Sorry, went on a bit of a ramble there.
Reply 99
Well, the way its supposed to work is that each generation gets it a little bit easier than the previous generation. That hasn't happened in my family. My dad had a soft life. I've had it a lot harder.

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