Woman cries "rape" after photo's posted online

My oh my you have a heart of gold. More concerned that she's enjoying it, and not that some creeps are taking pictures and posting them online...

My oh my you have a heart of gold. More concerned that she's enjoying it, and not that some creeps are taking pictures and posting them online...

Your post is horribly victim blaming.

Your post is horribly victim blaming. It's disgusting that so many people are happy to jump on the bandwagon of shaming rape victims. Even the article you linked points out people saying the same horrible rubbish as you.

Another case of a woman doing something stupid while drunk and regretting it then willing to ruin another mans life just to save face.

I'm glad i don't have one night stands and the like, but it's very worrying that women will cry rape and an absolute middle finger to real rape victims.

Your post is horribly victim blaming. It's disgusting that so many people are happy to jump on the bandwagon of shaming rape victims. Even the article you linked points out people saying the same horrible rubbish as you.

Yes it is really true men are the TRUE victims of rape. And they are the ones who should be focused on. /sarcasm

We don't know what happened. Yes if she was drunk then she is not of clear mind to give her consent.

I don't like the term "cry rape" either, trivialises the whole matter. False allegation of rape perhaps would be better term to use.

Wow.

First of all let's be clear, the reason i say "rape" and not ,rape, in this case, is because while everywhere/one is describing this as rape, even if it was against her will, it is NOT rape it is sexual assault.

So we have a couple of pictures (that i have seen), one showing a man performing oral sex on a woman who is able to keep herself upright and is clearly enjoying it (and if i remember correctly helping him out by holding her zipper away from his face), the other shows both of them posing for the camera and her still smiling. Both parties had been drinking.

I just don't get people like you..

I would not have sex with a fat unattractive woman in a sober state. I'll shamefully admit for the sake of making my point, i once got extremely drunk and had a one night stand and she was, well.. you get the picture.

We were both drunk, but i was absolutely smashed, she was not.

I of course regretted it and couldn't believe what i'd done (what i could remember).

Was i raped? Did i rape her because she was drunk? Did we rape each other? After all, i would never of consented when sober.

If it was the other way round, and the woman regretted it and decided she was raped, i'm guessing you'd agree and say she was raped because she was too drunk to give consent.

If two people were both as equally drunk, you would probably still agree she was raped, right?

Why is it, a drunk Man who has sex with a drunk Woman who ends up regretting it, is guilty of rape? Why is it only the fact the woman is drunk that people like you take into account?

These guys met on a night out, both drunk out partying. They were obviously talking and showing interest in each other..

So he starts using his fingers and mouth on her, she's enjoying it, doesn't once say no, doesn't once resist, smiles, looks at some randomer taking photo's, smiles...

I'm sorry but at what point did this become a sexual assault? If your answer is, she was too drunk to consent, why was HE not too drunk to consent?

When a guy goes out and get's smashed, why is the responsibility on him to attempt to judge someones alcohol levels, while off his face himself..

When i made my little mistake, i blamed myself for getting stupidly drunk, i didn't blame the girl, accuse her of taking advantage, or run to the police station (and i had my fair amount of shaming from all my mates who were with me on the night out), **** happens and i really shouldn't drink as much, lesson learnt.

If a girl is passed out and/or drunk to a point where she has no idea what's going on around her, and some bloke starts having sex with her, or touching her up, yes that is rape and/or sexual assault and should not be treated lightly, but that is clearly not the case here.

This is a clear cut case of a girl acting like a slut and regretting it the next day, then decides to shout rape as soon as people are like "omg why are you doing that with that guy in that photo".

It's cool that you care so much, but you're a guy on the internet, who's read some stuff that other people have posted on the internet. You have NO idea of what actually happened. You were not there. You have no authority to assume that you know best. Perhaps you should accept that and stop trying to persuade everyone that this woman is lying, when actually you have no ****ing idea what's actually gone on in this situation on the other side of the world.

Pictures are pictures regardless of where you are in the world... in principle I agree with you but there is clear evidence in this case.