Giving up on the prospect of getting a woman

I'm not going to lie I feel the exact same, I will say to you though there are a lot of men (and women believe it or not) in this boat.

The problem is VERY common for our age. The thing is realistically look around and you will probably see most people aren't getting laid/don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend. A lot do yes but equally a lot don't

Try not to be too hard on yourself. It can be difficult to resist the urge to become bitter and start to hate women, they can be awfully cold and defensive but remember that's because they're used to being treated quite badly by us (some guys are total sleeze)

If you really want to find one I'd honestly suggest just looking to girls on your facebook who you chat too, you don't know one might already like you. Alternatively you should go out there and look for one, the worst advice in the world is this "wait and it will come" crap that some people spew. You can't simpl wait for money and a BMW so you can't for a girl.

Dress good (very important) do your hair. Go gym (all of this is just for confidence, not getting girls. Getting girls is 90% confidence, 10% assets. I know a guy who is 5"5, below average looks yet he has slept with over 30 girls and I've seen him pull and the text messages he gets, it's all because he has an almost sociopathic level of confidence in himself + charisma.

Never get down about this, it will ruin your chances more like a horrible cycle, hope this helps and damn i better get bare rep for this **** cause I should be doing my essay

I can't take it anymore. I am 21 years old (male) and am terrible with women. Maybe it's because I come from a completely different background from everyone that I have met (even though I am British). Even at the club, girls don't look twice at me. I'm not even ugly (I used to be given good compliments about my looks by both men and women). It's not like I am incapable of talking to women, either. Yet, 21 years later, no success at all. Yes, I do also go to university. Lord knows how frustrated and angry I am; I am so close to wiping my hands completely.

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Don't give up. Although I am in a similar position I am 20 and a female, I am literally at my wits end of trying to find myself a boyfriend who isn't like the kind of guys that try to approach me as they are users and I don't want to be used. It's a shame.

See even girls have this issue. i do think though girls are a lot less vocal on here about it though. I think it's a real frustration because it is difficult to meet people at the high pace lives we all live, with deadlines, work jobs etc. In fact i was talking to a girl and it all sorta just went downhill cause I've got 4 deadlines, she has loads too it just really fell apart and now i think she's gone on holiday so yeah it's difficult but there is hope so d/w.

I can't take it anymore. I am 21 years old (male) and am terrible with women. Maybe it's because I come from a completely different background from everyone that I have met (even though I am British). Even at the club, girls don't look twice at me. I'm not even ugly (I used to be given good compliments about my looks by both men and women). It's not like I am incapable of talking to women, either. Yet, 21 years later, no success at all. Yes, I do also go to university. Lord knows how frustrated and angry I am; I am so close to wiping my hands completely.

If Bassetts can do it, then so can you.

Have you not even got off with a girl, not even a drunk one? Doesn't take much, especially as you have said you're not ugly. Let me ask you this, have you actually put yourself out there, been that guy that has made a move, asked a girl out or have you been the guy that goes to clubs/parties and stood comfortably with people you know. I don't mean to sound critical, as I think we have all been there, just wondering.

See even girls have this issue. i do think though girls are a lot less vocal on here about it though.

He has a girlfriend now?



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it sounds like you're trying way too hard to figure out what you're doing wrong externally without doing the internal work that you should be doing..

ironically the moment when you'll be most attractive is when you feel like you'd be happy with your life without any girls. when you're busy doing your own thing, being happy with your life, that non-desperate energy will make you very attractive. instead of thinking of girls as the thing that you need more of in order to make you happy, you need to think about what's missing in your life that you're feeling like you need girls to fill that void.. i strongly get the sense that girls are a huge achievement in your life at the moment, instead try to think of them as a "cherry on top".

focus on your career plans, your skills and hobbies, your friends, etc.

it sounds like you're trying way too hard to figure out what you're doing wrong externally without doing the internal work that you should be doing..

ironically the moment when you'll be most attractive is when you feel like you'd be happy with your life without any girls. when you're busy doing your own thing, being happy with your life, that non-desperate energy will make you very attractive. instead of thinking of girls as the thing that you need more of in order to make you happy, you need to think about what's missing in your life that you're feeling like you need girls to fill that void.. i strongly get the sense that girls are a huge achievement in your life at the moment, instead try to think of them as a "cherry on top".

focus on your career plans, your skills and hobbies, your friends, etc.