Meeting guy for the first time

I think your plan so far sounds fine. You're meeting up in public first, it's not like you're meeting him at his straight away. Plus his Mum will be home so doubt there's much you can get up to lol. Just enjoy your day with him and don't do anything you're not 100 percent comfortable with. Good luck!

Thanks for reassuring me

This sounds a lot safer than just meeting at someone's house, at least you'll be somewhere in public when you guys meet! Also, I agree, you said his mum'll be there, which makes it less dodgy and it's less likely you'll be getting up to stuff

My opinion:

You are naive.

Just because he said his mom will be at home, she will?

Do you trust him or not? You talk about public places but also meething him at his house.
If you trust him, why do you care about your safety and so on?
If not, why do you meet him at his house?

People lie, you know?

I don't trust people that easily.
I care about my safety because I don't want to be hurt

Okay! Thanks

I'm kind of nervous haha

I'm a guy and I've done this before. Bluntly put, he wants to **** you, it doesn't sound very dangerous, just go to Starbucks first.

I wouldnt go to a guys house the first time around. Chances are he wants to get up in your pants (despite what he says about his mom). I think you need to get to know him better, even if doesnt wanna ****, in my opinion (maybe im just too sensitive) going to someone's home is a personal thing. It's their PLACE, and you barely know him. Id say stay away from the residence for now

On my period so he's not ****ing me anytime soon

after a week?

still would smash

Yuckkkkkk

I would if I wasn't on my period.

This sounds a lot safer than just meeting at someone's house, at least you'll be somewhere in public when you guys meet! Also, I agree, you said his mum'll be there, which makes it less dodgy and it's less likely you'll be getting up to stuff