I got sick and tired of rejection

your being driven mad by the media.
adverts everywhere telling you that you need to be validated by what you wear and using sexual interest as currency.

most of us aint rockstars.

and young people have terrible taste in partners.
young men chase bimbos and young women chase idiots.
they chase who they are told is desirable by the media.

ignore all the bull. its all an ad campaign trying to bully you into buying the next iphone or pair of jeans. "can't get chicks? buy this new hair gel." its bull.

truth is most guys suck at getting girls when theyre young.

what you need to do is get mentally healthy.

the greeks new a lot about life and being happy.

healthy mind healthy body.

eat right. exercise.
read a classic book. pick a random one. check a top 10 books of all time list.

mental activity as stimulation.

master something.

humans love to master stuff. thats why we play video games.

buy an instrument or something.

save up to get out the country and go on a holiday to india.

eastern philosophy is the best medicine for western consumerist brain washing.

you will see people who are poor and have nothing who are happy.

it will show you the reality of the world.

unplug yourself from the matrix.

tl;dr "Girls don't like me so I got a nose job"

Was your nose really that bad before? What exactly was wrong with it? e.g was it crooked or too big? I've always thought that most guys could get away with having a big or crooked nose tbh, whereas girls can't.

your being driven mad by the media.
adverts everywhere telling you that you need to be validated by what you wear and using sexual interest as currency.

most of us aint rockstars.

and young people have terrible taste in partners.
young men chase bimbos and young women chase idiots.
they chase who they are told is desirable by the media.

ignore all the bull. its all an ad campaign trying to bully you into buying the next iphone or pair of jeans. "can't get chicks? buy this new hair gel." its bull.

truth is most guys suck at getting girls when theyre young.

what you need to do is get mentally healthy.

the greeks new a lot about life and being happy.

healthy mind healthy body.

eat right. exercise.
read a classic book. pick a random one. check a top 10 books of all time list.

mental activity as stimulation.

master something.

humans love to master stuff. thats why we play video games.

buy an instrument or something.

save up to get out the country and go on a holiday to india.

eastern philosophy is the best medicine for western consumerist brain washing.

you will see people who are poor and have nothing who are happy.

it will show you the reality of the world.

unplug yourself from the matrix.

I'm glad we are on the same page. Good advice there bro. Thanks for that.




Pretty much.




It wasnt bad, It was slightly large and bulbous (Im african) but I was still considered decent, handsome at most. The nose job sharpened the tip, think lewis hamilton, but slightly sharper. Apparently this was enough to make me more than handsome. All of a sudden girls are noticing my "sexy lips", my "beautiful eyes", and "how smart and talented I am.".

ye thats all well and good. But OP already said that he got a nosejob and now he gets poontang thrown at him.

Around 7000, and yeah, it did make me feel better and I look better as well. What saddens me however is how differently the world treats me. From what I have observed so far, people are more friendly, girls literally go out of their way to approach me etc. I have always believed people aren't shallow and i'm struggling to hold on to that belief right now.

ye thats all well and good. But OP already said that he got a nosejob and now he gets poontang thrown at him.

Oh shut up. Jesus.

is my computer broken?

im not seeing any pics OP

Bloody hell, you actually got it done?

Proud of you bro, well done!

Any chance of sharing your pics?

Don't be sick and tired of rejection, reject being sick and tired!



On a serious note, learn to play guitar well and chicks might like you.

Don't be mad you can't get a nose job like the rest of us.

Im not gonna be that guy who uploads his face to TSR after preaching about how he doesn't get girls. You mad?



Thanks man. I cant share pics sorry, but I like to think i look like a mixture of Trey songz and lewis hamilton, but less glamorous and even less dreamy lol




I can already play man, and I'll tell you it makes a difference, so that's a good shout. But the point is I wasent happy with how girls viewed me in my neutral state, when Im just there, no party tricks. I want them to show a pic of me to their friends and their Friends to be like "Damn. He can drill me any day."

I worked for that money bro, it was not given to me on a silver platter. I spent 6 years at university on an engineering Degree.

Im not gonna be that guy who uploads his face to TSR after preaching about how he doesn't get girls. You mad?



Thanks man. I cant share pics sorry, but I like to think i look like a mixture of Trey songz and lewis hamilton, but less glamorous and even less dreamy lol




I can already play man, and I'll tell you it makes a difference, so that's a good shout. But the point is I wasent happy with how girls viewed me in my neutral state, when Im just there, no party tricks. I want them to show a pic of me to their friends and their Friends to be like "Damn. He can drill me any day."

I got sick and tired of losing
I got sick and tired of being constantly rejected
of being that guy who's ok
of being another dude
another buddy
another friend
a creep
a loser
I got sick of tired of the indifference
being blanked
ignored
set aside for later
flaked on
put on hold
being at the bottom of the priority list
no one batting an eyelid in my presence
of getting ignored when i speak
of being considered worth less
of being cast aside
I got sick and tired of the excuses
"Yeh, I'll dance with you, but I've got to go over there and do something first"
"You're a good guy, im just not looking for someone right now."
"Eww."
"It's not that he's better than you, it's just that, you know."
I got sick and tired of the assumed incompetence
"She's out of your league"
"I'm out of your league."
"Why dont you go for Lucy, she's a nice girl" When in fact Lucy is not a nice girl.
"You friend is cute."
"That guy is nice."
I just got really really sick and tired of it all
I got sick and tired of putting on an exterior to portray how much I did not care
I got sick and tired of waiting that little bit longer before I replied to her messages
In the hope that maybe my indifference would make her appreciate me more
I got sick and tired of pretending to not give a ****
to not give a **** when she was telling me about her current conquest with other gentlemen
I grew tired of pretending that referring to women as bitches and hoes was not taking it's toll on me as an individual
of pretending that making hurtful jokes about them was not a reflection of how I had grown to feel about myself
I got sick and tired of the fact that I yearned for validation so much that It became a large factor in why I pursue women.
I got sick and tired of choosing who I got with based on what my friends would think of me when they saw her.
because I felt the one that I did attract made me look bad, made me look desperate, made me look like I couldnt get someone better.
I just really got sick and tired
So what did I do?
I wrote this piece of literature,
this manifest of my feelings
of all the hurt
of all the anger that is trapped within me
the beast that gets stirred every-time I get rejected
every-time I lose a love interest to someone else
every-time I feel inadequate
Slowly eating away at my personality
Making me bitter with each encounter.

In the end, I just got really really sick of it.
In the end, I decided it was time I started winning.
I decided it was time, I became that guy who is always relevant
That guy who doesn't get ignored,
who doesn't hear excuses after excuses

This is the end and I'm becoming that guy on the other end of the text messages.
That guy on the tip of her tongue
That guy in the reflection of her eyes
of their eyes.
That guy at the receiving end of their unanswered messages and their missed calls.
But only now do I realize,
this guy I'm becoming, he is not interested in them
in fact he is repulsed by them
For each time they reach out to him, It's a reminder
it's a reminder of the rejection, of the worthlessness
and each time, the beast within gets awoken,
the beast within craves freedom

and This is why I decided to get a nose job.

I dont know why I wrote this, Im just sad all the time.

I just want to see the nose, before and after.

So are you happy now?



tbh mine wasn't cosmetic. Broke my nose a few times and got it fixed on NHS.

But did it make any difference cosmetically?
Like has your self image improved as a result?