Why do girls just ignore text messages ?

True true.

Could you not work out a way to be friends? You must have both at least liked each other (not necessarily fancied) to have exchanged numbers and started communicating.

Confusing, eh? I know a girl who will message me with just a standard "hey, how are you" sort of thing but then ignore my reply. Makes no sense to me. I can't really be bothered playing silly games like that, so I'm just not going to bother replying anymore. I don't know if it's malicious or accidental, but if someone regularly doesn't remember that you exist at least once a week then there's not really any point in being friends with them.

Confusing, eh? I know a girl who will message me with just a standard "hey, how are you" sort of thing but then ignore my reply. Makes no sense to me. I can't really be bothered playing silly games like that, so I'm just not going to bother replying anymore. I don't know if it's malicious or accidental, but if someone regularly doesn't remember that you exist at least once a week then there's not really any point in being friends with them.

So I met this girl at Uni I liked we had some mutual friends saw each other about once a month or on nights out, I never flirted with her but she was really friendly and I suggested we meet up over the summer to which she said yep sounds good .

Then when I texted her she just ignored me ? I sent her a message on facebook about 4 weeks later just general stuff how are your holidays and she ignored that too. It just feels rude, fair enough if you dont want to hang out with someone but at least have the decency to reply !


Why the sudden change in attitude from being super friendly laughing at all my jokes and waving at me even if we were at opposite ends of the street to pretending I dont exist :s

Well...basically, mate, let's put it like this then:

First and foremost (very important lol): was she drinking when she said "yea sounds good." What kinda environment was it? Because a lot of times if not all the time, when people are in a loud, social place (party, club...) they just wanna have a good time and will agree to anything. They don't wanna especially girls, turn a guy down who's all in her face because it could turn sour if he feels snubbed. Also, women soak up attention and flattery, especially in a party vibe. Lastly, you seemed too keen, mate. She was like "who is this guy? Ooooh the one I said "yea" too " And so like...she feels most likely "awks" about getting back to you. You hit the nail on the head, kid, she has no decency Move on. Send her a hateful text with all caps and be on your merry. Plenty more mermaids in the sea lol

Ikr
Nah she definitely got the message. She choose to completely ignore me.

Its annoying though, spending ages getting to know someone then just getting now where. I think she has a boyfriend but still thats no excuse to not reply to a how are u?

Girls do reply...
But if you're not interested in someone/interested in having them as a friend I don't see why you'd keep the conversation going tbh. If she said "I don't want to talk to you anymore" OP would think that was impolite as well so you can't win really. Ignore and be impolite or end contact and be impolite.