Guy I'm in love with believes I'm a girl. I'm not.

How would you react? If you were that guy? I need to know what can I expect, worst case scenario.

lol you done goofed

In all honesty, I think you should tell him the truth and just bear the consequences
If it works out great but if it doesn't no biggie you're still young

Well I would write a message which opened telling him how you feel. Tell him that your thankful for all the help and support he has given you and that you love him etc. and then work up to telling him about your gender. I wouldn't run straight into it, but if you build up to it by letting him know how much he means to you he will know that you never meant to hurt him. I would then conclude by saying something like, 'I will understand if you don't want to talk again, but at least you know the truth' etc. I think it's important to offer to bring things to an amicable end, and if he wants to continue talking then that's great. Above all, give him time! Realise that it will take some time before he comes around and offer to give him that space, for as long as he needs. If he decides to move on then just know that you are young and you have plenty of fulfilling relationships ahead of you. You may not want to hear that now but it may be of some comfort down the line

I hope I've helped, if only a little Best wishes

Freak out. I think you mentioned he was bi; i hope this is true otherwise you're ****ed.

Empathize with him. He has fallen in love with a female. He has a mental projection of a female that he directs his emotions at. He has been fapping over this idea for a year.

Please, please tell him before you meet. I hope it works out well for you, honestly, but I would not be surprised if he freaks.

Quite weird and unlikely that you've been chatting for over a year and this dude has never once asked to see the human being on the other end? Even if it's just one picture at the start when you first started speaking? He doesn't even know what you look like? Uhhh sounds bogus to me.

So then change your gender, your real gender.

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This is what LGBT does..

I'm not trans so I've no desire to do that... Besides, we all know it's all fake in the end, they can never truly change it.

Well at least it will make him attracted to you and make him more likely to **** you etc. This is obvs better than being rejected totally.
Yeah, but still being a gender fluidic person is more likely to get what you desire than if you remain gay. Gender change is an option, and Imo it can work in your favour. If you really really want him, you wouldn't mind the change and sacrifice.


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I love your display pic

i immediately thought CATFISH, sorry lol. You said he's bi, just break it to him gently.,Don't just blurt it out. if you're serious about him he's going to have to know sometime.Why not now?

I guess everyone thought catfish hah, his story fits perfectly there

I read about it, it says 'These "catfish" usually intend to trick an unsuspecting person or persons into falling in love with them.'
That wasn't my intention, I just entered a chatroom under fem name, I never meant to trick anyone into falling in love with me.

as you do

I think most people actually tried that at some point, the chatroom thing, out of sheer curiosity. Could be wrong though.

I fell in love once, then I woke up.

not pretending to be a different gender

I think most people actually tried that at some point, the chatroom thing, out of sheer curiosity. Could be wrong though.