Lesbians - is a Bi girl a turn off for you?

It is a turn off if she is mostly into boys and is touchy-feely friends with a lot of them. But otherwise whatever, as long as she loves me it works!

I've been on a date with a girl I met on some friend's party, we had a click there and decided to go on a date.
I have much less experience with girls, so it is awkward for me. I told her I'm be (she already knew I'm poly so that is not the issue at all), ever since the date became just a friendly meeting, no hands holding, much less looking deep into the eyes... like she's avoiding it...

We really want to meet more and to get to know each other more, but it seems like she's more into being just friends...

so... Lesbians - is a Bi girl a turn off for you?

As a fellow bi girl, I can't speak for lesbians. However, I've been with lesbians in the past who certainly haven't had a problem with it. I think sometimes there's a bit of a stigma around bi women not being faithful, or 'having eyes' for the opposite sex they're with - which is obviously untrue. In my opinion, if they're the type of girl to believe that, and be genuinely mistrusting of the fact that I won't stay loyal because I'm attracted to both men and women, they're not my type of girl.

So in general, I don't think it should be a turn off!

Thanks so much for your answer.

You're welcome! Feel free to shoot me a message if you had any other questions

Yeah for me it is often but it’s not to do with how they identify but rather that most bi girls I meet seem very unsure of what they want or even if they want to date a girl, I’ve mostly met girls who are still coming to terms with their sexuality also so it feels like a turn off to listen to someone talk about their sexual relationships with guys also and often leaves me wondering if I’m just an experiment for her

I have a lot... Don't know where to start ... Now I sound like a troll.