I'm fed up, I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years a month ago and it's been the toughest month of my life. Not because of the breakup, but because she hasn't left me alone, making me feel she wants me etc.
I originally broke up with her because she lied to me all the time, she disappeared a couple of times on nights out and that completely blew my trust with her, or saying she wasn't going somewhere when she was, amongst other things, even the fact she was a virgin. and although i stayed with her a further 9 months it all got too much with arguing and lack of trust that I couldn't take it anymore.
For the past two weeks she's constantly been texting me, so I decided to give her a second chance to put things right and try and restore my trust. How wrong I was, the other week I found out she was using this app called Fling and found that she was speaking to loads of guys on it, adding them on KIK, Snapchat etc. No problem there, she's single. But given her persistence to try and get back with me I literally went mental over it.
Then, I stupidly let her speak to me even more for another week or so, and she's just been hot and cold, expecting me to trust her instantly, and so today was the final straw seeing as she cared more about her freshers night out than speaking to me.
But I can't get over it, we argued this morning because she was being really blunt with me and so we didn't speak until the end of today when I told her that that was it and it was the final straw. I've literally been the best boyfriend I could, and when she said she wanted me back I gave her loads of support to showing her the way towards it, but she never wanted to hear any of it? And now she's out for freshers without giving a crap. I'm sorry for the rant but it's really got to me, this girl is now no longer the person I fell in love with. But i don't know what to do? I've got my freshers next week which i'm looking forward to.
Enough is enough and I couldn't trust her at all, but I really don't know what to do with myself?
Any help would be amazing, cheers!