Children??

i personally think the greatest thing in the world to achieve is happyness but thats just me.

Yeah but maybe having kids will help some people achieve that

i personally think the greatest thing in the world to achieve is happyness but thats just me.

some people it would but for me it wouldnt. Couldnt think of anything worse than have a screaming kid to look after.

Happiness by having children but just like you said, its just my opinion

I think some people don't want children at all because they mainly think about the downsides like the crying, nappys, bringing them up...etc but for me, the joy of having children outweighs the bad. Then again theres people who can't stand pain so they won't to go through it, which is understandable...but just think about the beauty of what you get at the end of the 9 months

i think babies are ugly lol.

what that little wrinkly purple thing that will do nothing but mew, drink, poo and throw up for the next few months? remember that at that point it cant even smile (luckily it cant scream properly either).

I know what you mean though lots of people are like that.. me and my friends were all out at the park the other day and this little kid was running along kicking a football and I was like awww look he's so sweet I cant wait to have kids, then half the people I was with were like you're crazy

Hmmm. I think I'd like kids... girl and a boy, I think. Not sure, though; I want to be barrister, so I don't know if I could realistically combine that with lots of kids! If I were going to have kids, I'd want to stay at home until they went to school/nursery, and do it properly - I don't think it's fair to offload them onto a nanny, so that'd be hard to combine with such a competetive career! I hate being female sometimes. Will have to find myself a house-husband!

EDIT: My mum's much like me in terms of needing to stay stimulated, and she swears that having me and my brother was the best decision she ever made, so...

but will also be the most greatest achievement in the world...bring a life into this world that is a part of you and your spouse, that you would love soo much that its immense, and can only be felt once you become a mother When someone feels that love, the whole 'mew,drink,poo and throw up' is nothing!

Whenever i see a child playing around or..etc, i always go 'awwww i cant wait to have one' and all my friends think im crazy too

What about when they are teenagers getting arresting throwing stuff at you and swearing?
I want a 24/7 career and money children would destory both me ideas, plus I want happiness which kids dont give me.

but will also be the most greatest achievement in the world...bring a life into this world that is a part of you and your spouse, that you would love soo much that its immense, and can only be felt once you become a mother When someone feels that love, the whole 'mew,drink,poo and throw up' is nothing!