Shy on dates help needed

Basically I'm 19 first year at uni ,I met a girl through tinder ,and we arrangered to me but I don't know how to act around her bit shy,advise needed?

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

Don't have any expectations, don't think of it as a date but more like hanging out with a friend. If there's chenistry then flirting will come naturally to you. Good luck!!

Reply 2

Roadman

1

I saw a trick this guy said on YouTube (I think it was Kong from SimplePickup) and he plays the question game on dates.

Both agree to ask each other a set amount of questions (don't do too many or you will bore it out) and thats a nice ice breaker and you also get to know each other.

5 definitely will work and wont get boring, I dunno about 10 though.

OBVIOUSLY don't start with sex questions. Personally I wouldn't bring these up unless she does

Reply 3

C_tinie_D

10

I used to get nervous on dates too but trust me you can plan all you want to say but when it comes down to it and your there, everything comes naturally and you adapt to it there and then. Just go in with a clear head and enjoy, it takes two people to start a conversation so it's a good job your not alone huh

Reply 4

cole-slaw

5

Original post by Roadman

I saw a trick this guy said on YouTube (I think it was Kong from SimplePickup) and he plays the question game on dates.

Both agree to ask each other a set amount of questions (don't do too many or you will bore it out) and thats a nice ice breaker and you also get to know each other.

5 definitely will work and wont get boring, I dunno about 10 though.

OBVIOUSLY don't start with sex questions. Personally I wouldn't bring these up unless she does

that sounds like the worst idea I have ever heard, ever.

OP, just have a drink, have a chat, ask her questions, tell some funny anecdotes, be cool. If things are going well get flirting.