Okey, well, a fellow monkey and I have managed to figure out why I was getting Strict, without port forwards I now get Moderate and with them I get Open. Remeber this is at my house, not on ResNet.
We do however think it's the same issue that's causing ResNet to only ever get Strict. it's pretty technical but in short XBL does not like NAT changing the source port on the UDP packets sent from the 360.
The chances are at current if you ever get Open or Moderate you are the only person on campus playing XBL, or possibly there are less then 16 people on XBL at any time. I'm not sure which.
I'm off ill at the moment on doctors orders so I can't look at our documents on the NAT facility. I will when I get back to work, but no promises, knowing what the issue is suggests there may not be a workable NAT solution to get anything other then Strict.
It worked for me at home but theres only one 360 there, if there was a second it might not work.
I'll let you know.
M2