This girl is soo beautiful, I feel really small and silly agaisnt her :(

I really like what you're saying and I thank you for that maybe she does have flaws (she's human so she probs does) but she went to an independent school and she's got everything in her life, her parents are like rich, she live in a really big house!
I dunno, I'm really confused as to why I'm so ott about her :/

tbh I was thinking that like I just want to be like you guys and be positive about myself and get on with life, but I have a confidence issue because I'm fat and ugly. But I think after the exams I'm gonna try and get a bit 'healthier' and all.

Like thanks so much for what ur saying though, if only I could put it to practise
And no it's fine, no it's not a sexuality issue at all

Maybe that's her problem in life, she has so much but she didn't work for it and it doesn't feel like it's hers? Or maybe cause people look at her like she's some amazing person when she just wants to blend in and be normal?

Honestly kid, you're describing her the way I describe a girl I have a crush on....

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Yeah like Lil08 said it does sound like you could really use a boost in confidence so take more time trying to do things for yourself and your future so 'self development'. If you feel you're overweight like you say that's something to consider, but again don't be obsessive about it and cut yourself some slack, you're only human.

Of course all this is easier said that done but you have to start somewhere. You might struggle to begin with but if you stick at it your confidence will grow and you won't focus on other people so much more how you can better yourself . Best of luck.

yeah i am mean i really need to get some CONFIDENCE hah (sad i can't buy it or anything). but Thanks very much, whatever you say is really nice x

yh i don't wanna become obsessed with losing weight. However, i do get bullied ALOT by my family (especially younger brother) about my weight! Like my friends support me an dont mind me being fat,,, but my brother constantly mention it while i'm eating- and most of the time (last 2 weeks) i've just ended up crying and having loads of arguments. My mum is lovely but she says my brother is constantly saying ur fat so u lose some weight :'( I dunno if that's affecting my confidence more :/ x

Have serious words with your mum about it say you have to stop (younger brother) saying stuff about my weight, it's really upsetting to have him go on about it all the time. Every time he does it just go and snitch until your mum hopefully puts a stop to it. Say you want to try and lose weight but it's just making you even demotivated having him hounding you about it. All else fails give him a clip round the ear and tell him to clear up his spots or put a bit of weight on his skinny ass (joking... Or am I!?)

trust me i feel like slapping him one sometimes, but my fmaily are around the dinner table when he does that. I mean, my dad just tell him to stop but he doesnt care and my mum just thinks it funny i mean i just find THAT TOTALLY DIGUSTING AS HELL! i would never ever think about doing that to anyone. He is my younger brother an i still support him (in his gcse) because im his sister if only anyone in my family was like you poeple who are nice!! x

The fact that seeing this girls photos makes you cry, is actually quite a concern.

We all see people who look beautiful and sometimes it's easy to resent them for that, but to be so upset that you cry is worrying.
I think you need to look at the bigger picture and dig a little deeper.

Just because she is 'beautiful' doesn't make you any less attractive, no matter how much money she has doesn't change your finances and her family could seem wonderful, but it doesn't change yours.

If you go through life comparing yourself to other people, you'll never appreciate what you've got here and now. There will always be people with more than you and plenty with less as well.

Gain some confidence - then get to know her and then ask her out once you have the confidence.

hmm, maybe! because she does sometimes stare at me and my friends when we walk past 'her and her friends'. so maybe she does wanna blend in, i'm not sure :/

but, she's so different i mean she's so simple, doesnt wear makeup and yet soo beautiful! hm... I wonder what she thinks about herself and her beauty

haha aww why do you really like this 'crush' of urs?? personality or beauty??

I don't fancy her in that way

Aye then whats the problem here ... if thats the case then by asking her out and not on a date to just hang out and do something that wyou will both enjoy and get t0 know her better.

Sorry about this rant but There is this girl I am obsessed with because she is just perfect! like she has beautiful sister, a great family and is just like really really beautiful!

Like I am ugly, boring, quite! I'm not saying because you're rich your amazing! but every time this girl posts a new profile picture, it make me cry and feel really down about myself!

she is soo down to earth and really popular, and I would never be able to approach her, as I am not her type of girl to hang out with! I really want to add her on facebook, but I feel restricted because I added her twice before and she didn't accept!

We go to this volunterring thing, and she and her family are really popular and well known!


I dunno what to do and how to feel

clearly you need to work hard on your self-esteem. try to do something with your life that you can feel proud about.