cheated on my bf, ama

Was yours a particularly sheltered, cosseted and generally stringent upbringing?

I see that you're attempting to be a little hippie and stand out from the crowd with your answer

fail. Cheating is unacceptable, no ifs, no buts.

yeah sort of
no not really, the only person's opinion i particularly care about right now is my boyfriend's
does it bother you that i don't see myself as inferior then

no i grew up in a rough area, definitely wasn't sheltered



agreed



top banter there mate

You did summat stupid then didnt you. Just imagine he cheated on you. Instead of you sharing out youve cheated on him on OP youd actually say he cheated on me and just cry wouldnt you? or maybe ask for help.....
No offence but if he didnt do anything bad why do it in the first place :/...

Your value judgments are your own and so it does not bother me.

I take the view that people are worthy of being my equal until they prove otherwise but other's don;t think like me (good or bad, who knows). By proving that you are disloyal, your not worthy of respect from your boyfriend in my view. He may be weak enough to keep you though.

Thanks, I do try. But in all seriousness, I'd be pretty ****ed off if that happened to me, but we all make mistakes.

i genuinely don't know why i did it
he is a lovely guy, and has never done anything wrong, he's just generally amazing in every way
i wish i could have been just as perfect for him, but you can't change the past
and if he leaves me then i know he'll make somebody else very happy, because he's actually properly great

did you swallow? Also if you didn't actually sleep with him why bother telling him?

of all my friends its the good one's that have been cheated on and i know how you're bf is going to feel I've been cheated on once by my ex and she was a so called "nice" girl its always the one's you dont expect that turn out to be whores.

Hmm. Maybe because you still had feeling for your ex & you just cant let him go if your saying hes a lovely guy. You love the guy. You made a mistake and youve confessed it patch things up and make it out and this time dont go crazy.

That's not cheating. There's nothing wrong with that. You're not married, you can have sex with any man you want good on you

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19 year old female at uni, cheated on my long term bf the other day. ask me anything

OP I feel your shame. I've recently been in a very similar situation to you, except I'm a guy who got with a girl who was a friend. ......

Do you wear Fedoras?

All women cheat get over it.

I don't understand why you cheated though. I'm not asking to judge but I'm curious to know why someone may cheat on someone they love. Have you ever been attracted to your best friend? Like whats your relationship with your best friend like? (in the past). Does he regret it as much as you do or did he not really care?
And how exactly did it happen? You said you had a few drinks but do you remember it and do you know what you were thinking?

"Truly regrets actions" > opens an AMA on TSR.

Seems Legit.

Is your bf on TSR?

does that make a difference
i would tell him even if i just kissed somebody, because it's wrong to cheat
when you enter into an exclusive relationship you've made a commitment to that person. doing something with somebody else is betraying their trust, and they deserve to know that you've not been faithful. so i will tell him



i wouldn't say cheating made me a whore, because i didn't have sex in exchange for money.
definitely doesn't make me a classy girl though, and i'm not trying to pretend it does, or justify my actions in any way. but there's no need to throw words around to get a reaction



i'm not sure i quite understand...