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What am I doing wrong?

I exercise a lot, do well at uni, can cook pretty well, keep clean, have quite a lot of friends.

Why can't I just find a nice girl friend? I'm male (19) if you hadn't guessed. Ask me anything

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Reply 1

phunky_fresh

Original post by Anonymous

I exercise a lot, do well at uni, can cook pretty well, keep clean, have quite a lot of friends.

Why can't I just find a nice girl friend? I'm male (19) if you hadn't guessed. Ask me anything

Do you have any personality?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Original post by phunky_fresh

Do you have any personality?

hmm I'm not sure anyone can really answer that about them selves, but of course I'd like to say yes

Reply 3

Ripper Phoenix

bruh do you even lift?

Talk to girls...

Original post by Ripper Phoenix

bruh do you even lift?

Haha

Reply 6

SophieSmall

Well...have you asked any girls out?

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Original post by Ripper Phoenix

bruh do you even lift?

Haha I do as a matter of fact but I prefer to be athletic rather than "huge"

Reply 8

kandykissesxox

[QUOTE=Anonymous;56191925]I exercise a lot, do well at uni, can cook pretty well, keep clean, have quite a lot of friends.

Why can't I just find a nice girl friend? I'm male (19) if you hadn't guessed. Ask me anything

Are you expectations high? Maybe that's why because you're too busy searching for the perfect girl. Maybe someone out there is trying to get your attention but you're not quite realising ?

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by SophieSmall

Well...have you asked any girls out?

I went on a coffee date a while ago, we really liked each other, but it's a long and complicated story and in the end it didn't work out. I still speak to her though

Reply 10

SophieSmall

Original post by Anonymous

I went on a coffee date a while ago, we really liked each other, but it's a long and complicated story and in the end it didn't work out. I still speak to her though

Then you need to approach more women, you're chances will increase with the more women you ask out.

Reply 11

Joshale

Original post by Anonymous

Haha I do as a matter of fact but I prefer to be athletic rather than "huge"

get ripped then

Reply 12

Ripper Phoenix

Original post by Anonymous

I exercise a lot, do well at uni, can cook pretty well, keep clean, have quite a lot of friends.

Why can't I just find a nice girl friend? I'm male (19) if you hadn't guessed. Ask me anything

okay lets break this down slowly. You do the basics. good! but just by doing that wont help you get a GF you need to explore, go on dates, meet up with new people, learn more about them.. say for instance you like a girl, walk up to her ask her out for a coffee or something.

Reply 13

Ripper Phoenix

Original post by Anonymous

Haha I do as a matter of fact but I prefer to be athletic rather than "huge"

lol im not saying go on a protein diet and build a house in the gym. I'm just saying gain some muscle

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

Original post by kandykissesxox

Are you expectations high? Maybe that's why because you're too busy searching for the perfect girl. Maybe someone out there is trying to get your attention but you're not quite realising ?

I suppose they are reasonably high but I don't think I'm normally punching above my weight when I like a girl

Reply 15

kandykissesxox

[QUOTE=Anonymous;56192931]I suppose they are reasonably high but I don't think I'm normally punching above my weight when I like a girl[/QUOTE

What draws you to a girl?!

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

Original post by Ripper Phoenix

lol im not saying go on a protein diet and build a house in the gym. I'm just saying gain some muscle

Original post by Joshale

get ripped then

Ok point taken, watch this space and in a few years I'll come back looking like Arnold

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

Original post by kandykissesxox

What draws you to a girl?!

brunette (almost always), good figure, nice eyes, similar interests/music/sports, intelligent

Reply 18

kandykissesxox

[QUOTE=Anonymous;56193283]brunette (almost always), good figure, nice eyes, similar interests/music/sports, intelligent

Seems to me you're quite demanding, maybe other girls are aware of this so stay away. Loosen up a bit