Would it be wrong of me, when her sister said I am here for you two no matter what to suggest that I feel I have a little concern in regards to her ex? ... I don't want my girlfriend to flip if I asked her in person, and maybe her sister knows a bit more than me and can explain to me the scenario.Another thing, if I was to mention to my girl that I feel she is talking to her ex, well she is going to ask how do I know, as it is one long number (she hasn't saved his name on her phone / changed it)....
The reason I know is one day we was drunk and her phone buzzed and the text read something which pretty much confirmed it, and as a weirdo I rang the number (on my phone, with no caller ID) and as I guessed, was a guy...Again, I am going to be honest, I'm pretty torn right now. She just messaged saying would my mum and sister want to go for a slushy together later, as we couldn't last night...these mixed signals are crazy. It seems though that she wants to integrate heavily with my family though, and this hasn't been the case with any of her previous relationships, I know that for sure. We aren't getting enough us time....but when I said that, she said its not all about sex.
Do I next time I see her text the long number, ask out the blue, who is it?.... if she says something along the lines of none of your business, or something, should I suggest, if you have anything on your mind, or if your ex is still trying to get in contact with you, you know you can let me know... you told me we can speak about anything with each other.
- Is this the best way to approach this? ... Later today, she wants to meet mum / sister for a slush like I said with me, shall I suggest that they aren't able to make it, but of course we can together, if she says no, shall I just confront the situation, that why is there no just me + you time, and always having to be others?... we've not shared a moment for ages, and then ask about the ex like I mentioned above in the underlined section.