Am I Clingy?

You're not being clingy in my opinion. Not all people suffering from depression behave rationally and they hit out at those who care...

Just leave him .. he'll talk to you if he wants to.

Wow. If someone talked to me like that I would seriously re consider my relationship with them. He sounds like he needs space but you don't need this negative energy in your life, give it space and if he behaves like this again, cut him off/ask him if he needs help because that's not acceptable and you're not clingy just for asking if something is wrong

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Stop infantilising him and enabling his bull**** behaviour. Depressives are still rational and capable of deciphering between right and wrong. The worst thing you can do is enable this bull****.

Men in particular don't respond particularly well to mollycoddling; the most caring act is typically the harshest one. Support him but don't let him walk all over you like a petulant child.

Based on that text, it seems he's owning his label more than it's owning him. Your role is to help him out of whatever it is he's dealing with. Right now you come across a bit like a Mother feeding her drug addict son painkillers.

Men in particular don't respond particularly well to mollycoddling; the most caring act is typically the harshest one.

He sounds awful, if I was you I would dump him and tell him he needs to get a grip, it's not clingy to worry about someone, daft men!

But he's got depression and I'm not sure what would happen if I left him. It's not like I don't want him anymore, I just don't understand the situation

I get that he is depressed but he still sounds horrible, there's no excuse to be that rude towards you, especially as he said he wanted to die recently, what does he expect? Sorry but I wouldn't take being spoken to like **** like that.

I suppose so. He was acting odd with me before this happened too. He had a big argument with me before because apparently I don't care, which is ironic. But apologised literally a couple of hours later.

I'm sort of wondering whether this is a recurring act, him treating me like this as he's done it before.

my friend told me to not be one or those girls who are too nice and take back boys who treat girls like ****.

But he's got depression and I'm not sure what would happen if I left him. It's not like I don't want him anymore, I just don't understand the situation

I suffer from depression but that doesn't make me an unempathetic dick. -_-

It makes me sad that people like him have partners yet I don't and objectively I'd be so much better of a friend. People. Give me a chance already 0_0

Your friend sounds like a very wise person, he doesn't sound worth it, regardless of his condition.

I'm sure you will find someone right for you.

I'm not that perfect tbh and I do have my moments when I'm unpleasant but I would never act how he is acting towards me.

I promise you'll find someone as nice as you are x

I'm growing tired of giving but not receiving. Makes you lose hope and motivation. When one resorts to online dating for the basis of a meaningful relationship. Well. Signs of bad times.

Anyhow. I wish you luck in your relationship and hope somehow you two can resolve this issue but I hardly approve of how he is acting towards you...