I love my boyfriend but I think I like someone else?

I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and I love him more than anything. However, I started seeing a guy around college and I think I've developed a crush on him?? I'm not completely sure if it is a crush, I go out of my way to walk past im and stuff and the fact that he makes eye contact with me makes me confident, happy ect. Then last night I had a dream about him and I keep thinking back to it and it's making me sad. I have no idea what I'm feeling, someone help pls

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Anonymous #1

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Also, 1) he likes the same band as me and wears their t-shirts every day and 2) he does politics and I love politics. I'm really ****ing hoping those aren't signs

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Anonymous #1

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HELP

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Jazzyboy

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1. If your boyfriend doesn't make eye contact with you, there's something wrong there.

2. I've never been in the same situation, but I'm gonna go ahead and guess that it's probably a crush. It's up to you whether you want to act on it, though if you do; you should end your current relationship first.

Sorry, I'm not even close to being an expert on this subject so I can't say much else.

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username47781

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Original post by Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and I love him more than anything. However, I started seeing a guy around college and I think I've developed a crush on him?? I'm not completely sure if it is a crush, I go out of my way to walk past im and stuff and the fact that he makes eye contact with me makes me confident, happy ect. Then last night I had a dream about him and I keep thinking back to it and it's making me sad. I have no idea what I'm feeling, someone help pls

You need to decide what you really want, it is unfair on your boyfriend if you have feelings for someone else. Sounds like maybe your relationship has gone stale and routine.

OP

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and I love him more than anything. However, I started seeing a guy around college and I think I've developed a crush on him?? I'm not completely sure if it is a crush, I go out of my way to walk past im and stuff and the fact that he makes eye contact with me makes me confident, happy ect. Then last night I had a dream about him and I keep thinking back to it and it's making me sad. I have no idea what I'm feeling, someone help pls

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username155270

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Original post by Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and I love him more than anything. However, I started seeing a guy around college and I think I've developed a crush on him?? I'm not completely sure if it is a crush, I go out of my way to walk past im and stuff and the fact that he makes eye contact with me makes me confident, happy ect. Then last night I had a dream about him and I keep thinking back to it and it's making me sad. I have no idea what I'm feeling, someone help pls

Have you spoken to him before?

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Anonymous #1

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Hi sorry everyone for not replying. I feel like we have a lot in common; he likes politics, he likes Metallica, he's my type (blonde hair ect) and I'M SO CONFUSED