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I see beautiful girls in the street with guys that are less attractive than me.

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Reply 40

Nirvana1989-1994

Original post by UWS

@Nirvana1989-1994 @Rhaenys10

Lord of all damnation, when will you give up, Ttingox!

Reply 41

Proxenus

Original post by Eagle999

When I walk in the street I see tons of stunning girls with guys that I look a lot better than them.

I am more muscular and fit than them.
And have a more attractive face than them.

And yet I am single,
And they have beatiful girlfriends

they create chances by going out and socialising, meeting new people. Chances are, girls see them as more attractive because they've met and exp their personality. its more of a 1st come first serve

Reply 42

asif007

Instead of sitting there feeling sorry for yourself, you need to get up and channel your energy into things that could make you attractive to girls. Eat well, go to the gym, dress well, focus on your career/hobbies, have a passion for something, meet girls out and about - generally just enjoy your life. Being negative about it doesn't help anyone and will actually hinder your chances of pulling a girl. Trust me, I've been there and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. Having a negative mindset can take you down and make you ill. Nobody can help you but yourself.

Don't listen to all the BS that girls come out with about "personality" - they don't know what they're talking about. The reason you see girls latching onto guys who are ****heads or not as good-looking as you, is because those guys have something else to offer. They've made gains in the gym, they have serious confidence or they have money. All of those things you can work on. You can't help how you look but obviously girls aren't finding you as attractive as you think you are. Be careful about thinking you're better looking than other guys cos that just comes across really vain and entitled - save that part of yourself for when you get a girlfriend, haha. :tongue:

Until then - gym, sports, whatever it is to get you away from your computer, out and about meeting girls. Practise makes perfect. :smile:

Reply 43

karl pilkington

You probably aren't better looking than them you just think you are

Reply 44

Results

Everyone has their own view on "attractiveness".

I, for one, don't think you're attractive...but hey, I'm just an attractive guy - what do I know, right?

Reply 45

math42

I assume this is a troll. Nevertheless I really don't think being particularly muscular gives a great advantage.

Reply 46

Allie4

oh here we go, 'i'm better looking therefore i deserve it more'... :nooo:

Thats WHY you don't have someone. get over yourself, being better looking doesn't automatically make you the better option

Reply 47

username1726117

Original post by asif007

you need to get up and channel your energy into things that could make you attractive to girls. Eat well, go to the gym, dress well, focus on your career/hobbies, have a passion for something, meet girls out and about - generally just enjoy your life.

Even then there's no guarantees. In fact experience leads me to say that it doesn't necessarily improve one's situation at all.

That said, I certainly agree that OP should done this...but ultimately, for himself. At least he will have a better life and be happier.

Reply 48

asif007

Ofc there's no guarantees, OP will have to put his own effort in. But I agree it should be for himself. Girls want someone who takes care of themselves first and foremost.