Girls, what makes a guy attractive to you?

Complete honesty please… and also mention physical traits (especially them!). Any personal examples would be appreciated too

Complete honesty please… and also mention physical traits (especially them!). Any personal examples would be appreciated too

Personally I think it’s amazing when a guy knows how to be completely honest and is able to communicate well. That is a key thing to having a relationship work and not many men (or the guys I’ve come across) have that. For physical traits I like guys who has a nice back/a bit of broad shoulders and a nice/funny laugh and a smile that I could look at forever. Of course a guy who is nice and friendly is amazing but that is more of a given. I don’t know if this helps but this is what I think personally!

if the guy likes to read books in his spare time or is a book nerd

ok... and what about physical traits?

Thanks! Great comment.



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The fact that girls prefer a guy to have a funny personality is depressing because I’m not a comedian and whenever I try to be funny it always fails.

(OP here) it’s actually encouraging, honestly!

i’d feel way more discouraged if most girls told me “i wouldn’t date a balding/bald guy”, as a balding guy myself… because that’s a physical trait i can’t change and, especially, it’s an objective thing.

Regarding funny personality… i’d like to specify that being funny is something i think mostly relies on chemistry between people, also due to the fact that people laugh for different things.

So, I honestly think nobody is boring… it’s just a matter of the people you meet and what their idea of “funny” is. Sure, a funny guy (who takes care of himself physically) will probably have a lot of success with girls/women thanks to this trait… but his confidence and ability to make others laugh also depends on how he feels with himself. So, the very first thing any guy should do is to workout and generally improve other aspects of himself, in order to feel better about himself and also discover his full potential.

Because you believe the answers from girls? Do you expect them to answer "Yes I'm shallow and a bald guy is ugly"? There's no point asking girls. Hair matters a lot, just like having a goodlooking face and being tall. I'm sure you notice it by yourself

Two words bro: Jason Statham.

You can be attractive as a bald guy if you're ripped and sufficiently tall. If you're fat and short and bald yeah you're screwed (or rather you're not screwed)

OP here.

I wouldn’t mention Jason Statham or any other bald celebrity: they’re surely bald… but they’re FAR from average in any other aspect. They’re generally pretty tall, ripped and, especially, famous and rich hollywood actors.

I’d simply mention bald men you see on the streets. You can definitely see lots of bald men with attractive women (sometimes very very cute ones)