islam and sex

i only found out now that this is haram i dont understand why everything is haram also i dont always orgasm during vaginal sex but i do with oral and my husband and i enjoy it?? is there any source and can you confirm

Because one does zikir, recite the Holy Quraan with the mouth so by inserting filth as such is deemed at the very least as makrooh.

if “oral sex” means to insert the penis in the wife’s mouth to the extent that she takes in the filth, whether this filth is semen (Mani) or pre-ejaculatory fluid (Madhi), or the man takes the filth of the woman in his mouth, then this is not permissible. Taking the filth with all its forms in the mouth is unlawful.

The fluids which come out are impure, thus make it impermissible to take it orally. Therefore sis it can be deemed as impure because one will be supplicating to Allah with that mouth and so forth.

Clearly some super strict version of Islam.

Islam allows everything apart from anal afaik

i only found out now that this is haram i dont understand why everything is haram also i dont always orgasm during vaginal sex but i do with oral and my husband and i enjoy it?? is there any source and can you confirm

Yeah and oral