parents won’t let me move out for uni

Let's say you were to move out. Do you have enough money to support yourself? because if you are still financial dependent on your parents, leaving would be a bit of an issue. Especially if they decide to cut you off financially

well its only February & uni is in September, I have some money saved up plus financial aid. But I plan on working next month to save more

my father is very physically abusive

well its only February & uni is in September, I have some money saved up plus financial aid. But I plan on working next month to save more

If this is true then it's definitely a matter for the police. No ifs, no buts, no maybes. This man needs to be spending quality time with Bubba, in the big house.

🥴🥴 nooo he has a ton of kids to support n it’s not that big of a deal lots of kids get whooped. usually for a valid reason tho which my dad clearly doesn’t understand

That is a pretty **** situation to be in your mum saying your dead sounds like threat and that's not ok. I would recommend the nuclear optionI'm going to put it in a spoiler and just adapt it to your situation


I'd also give ti uni A ring now see what they can recommend good luck.

hello so im in year 13 basically, im American and applied for some uk unis. mainly bc it’s way affordable & only three years vs our four years & I deffo don’t want anything local. but, as soon as I mentioned it to my parents they freaked out, hid my passport and documents!.

im a girl & they’re very ... cultural. they don’t want me moving out because I’m a girl & it’s seem as if it’s wrong to them. we don’t get along, my father is very physically abusive & my mother has always been on his side

I can’t take it anymore, I’m 18 & know “legally” I can do whatever. but culturally I’m still a “child” until I’m married off, if anyone ethic understands lol. my mother said I would be dead to her if I moved out & I honestly don’t know if she means that or.... please help.

This is actually so amazing thank you SO much. Yes my parents are very strict Muslims, I love Islam, but they are just so strict & toxic. I actually love this advice so much I was really worried about how I should go about on The plane & packing. Should I leave just before Move in day so when I land I can go straight to my Accomodation? ❤️

This is actually so amazing thank you SO much. Yes my parents are very strict Muslims, I love Islam, but they are just so strict & toxic. I actually love this advice so much I was really worried about how I should go about on The plane & packing. Should I leave just before Move in day so when I land I can go straight to my Accomodation? ❤️

Islam and them being a Muslim doesn’t warrant them to react or act in that manner and if they use that as an excuse to justify their behaviour that’s not okay

It’s cultural ideologies unfortunately that make people so rigid in their regressive mindset.

If you can Land and go straight to your halls that would be ideal but it may be easier like a day or two before (which would mean a hotel) I'd ask the uni how early you can move in and move in then Also see if you can amend your Visa to allow you to work when your here to support your self. A little work would help lot with funds See if you could do some work with Aim higher (basically involves working with school kids promoting uni and stuff) I did that at uni and it's pretty fun. Bar work is very popular among students all but I guess you probably wouldn't do that.

Omg that sounds like a fun job, thank you so much I’ll deffo look into that !!

I don’t think you have considered it carefully.

British universities charge £9250 for British students.

International students need to pay £26,700 per year which is around $34,500 just for tuition, factor in living costs and it all adds up to be very expensive. In addition to this you won’t qualify for a UK student loan because they’re only for British citizens.

I am sure that it is much cheaper to go to a university in your state