Over the last few years I really tried to be a better Muslim. I was taught that this religion was from God, the Quran was His literal, unchanged word, and everything that happened was because of His will. To be fair, I had some unhealthy religious thinking growing up e.g. correlating the quality of life with my relationship with God - for example, if I wasn't doing too well in school or sport then sometimes interpreting that as God punishing me for my sins or not being a good Muslim. In Sixth Form was when I started to take Islam more seriously and began praying 5 times a day and on time and improving my character hoping God would be pleased with me and let me do a good degree at a good uni. In Y12 I went on a pilgrimage to Mecca with family and made the same prayers. But after that was when everything went downhill. I didn't know what was going on at the time, but I think the spirituality I had on the pilgrimage was so intense that I had some sort of involuntary awakening and my ego that was tethering me to the material world dissolved and I lost all my motivation for life. Unfortunately I was still in school and was suffering as I couldn't motivate myself and had to rely on the faith to motivate me but this never really worked and I felt like I didn't even have free will. I was still trying to be a good Muslim and praying to do well academically but due to motivation I couldn't get into uni and took a gap year to re-sit. Again my motivation was extremely low and I couldn't re-sit but wanted to go to uni so found an alternative route in. At uni the motivation was still low and then it got to a point last Summer where I couldn't take it anymore and was having doubts about the religion even being true. I started researching the primary sources in more detail and found a lot of holes in the Quran and Hadith that I couldn't make sense of. Eventually I lost all my belief in the religion. Once this happened I noticed my ego/motivation slowly returned until it became back to normal. I got so depressed thinking I'd wasted so much time, that my prayers and fasts didn't even mean anything anymore, wishing I didn't go on that pilgrimage. The thing is now I don't know who I am anymore or what to do. I believe that all religions are man-made and not sure if there is a God or what happens after death but to do believe in some kind of higher power or intelligence. Still I identify as a Muslim for cultural reasons and went to Friday prayer recently. For me Islam is a subjective experience now and more about spirituality and connecting to something greater than myself when I pray. I don't think about preparing for the afterlife or sin or whether God is pleased with me. Religion is for me now. Still it is all a bit confusing ; I don't really pray at all now and is more when I feel like it yet I don't feel like a proper Muslim. Not sure what I'm going to this this Ramadan either. Suppose what I'm trying to say is what is life? Is it just about doing as much good as you possibly can and chasing as much happiness as possible - and where does religion fall into that? Rambling a lot here but just not sure what to do.....