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Impossible to get casual sex at uni

I thought going to uni halls would give me a great chance to lose my virginity but I have had no luck yet so many others on my corridor get sex the girls I've tried to get with make a silly excuse yet soon as they see a tall guy or a guy with a beard they are straight into bed how is this fair? And why do so many girls have ridiculous standards?

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Reply 1
Original post by Anonymous
I thought going to uni halls would give me a great chance to lose my virginity but I have had no luck yet so many others on my corridor get sex the girls I've tried to get with make a silly excuse yet soon as they see a tall guy or a guy with a beard they are straight into bed how is this fair? And why do so many girls have ridiculous standards?


What is your height?
I'm going to be blunt and say they the main reason for going to university should be because you want an education for a subject that you enjoy.

University is for education (primarily), gaining independence and building new connections/making Friends.

You're at university, not a sex; strip or night club.

Edit: fixed typo.
(edited 1 year ago)
Original post by loope.1
What is your height?

5 feet 8
Probably should of considered a career in pornography instead.
Reply 5
Original post by Anonymous
5 feet 8

Ok. You are not very tall but you are not short either. But some girls will prefer someone talker or athletic or athletic & taller. And many other girls will have very high standards as they believe they can have standards and regardless of looks of height.
Reply 6
Original post by Talkative Toad
I'm going to be blunt and say they the main reason for going to university should be because you want an education for a subject that you enjoy.

University is for education (primarily), gaining independence and building new connections/making Friends.

You're at university, not a sex; strip or night club.

Edit: fixed typo.


That's all great but this is part of University life. Getting laid in a few words.
Original post by Anonymous
I thought going to uni halls would give me a great chance to lose my virginity but I have had no luck yet so many others on my corridor get sex the girls I've tried to get with make a silly excuse yet soon as they see a tall guy or a guy with a beard they are straight into bed how is this fair? And why do so many girls have ridiculous standards?


You need to become a chad, advice from me who was in this situation.
Original post by loope.1
That's all great but this is part of University life. Getting laid in a few words.


Yeah but that's not the main reason/shouldn't be one of your goals when going to university. :ottid:

Original post by random_matt
Probably should of considered a career in pornography instead.
Original post by Talkative Toad
I'm going to be blunt and say they the main reason for going to university should be because you want an education for a subject that you enjoy.

University is for education (primarily), gaining independence and building new connections/making Friends.

You're at university, not a sex; strip or night club.

Edit: fixed typo.


Yeah but nearly everyone else in my halls is getting sex
Original post by Anonymous
Yeah but nearly everyone else in my halls is getting sex


How do you know that? Even then that's doesn't take away from my main point.
Personality? Character?
Original post by Talkative Toad
How do you know that? Even then that's doesn't take away from my main point.

Cuz I can ******* hear it most nights makes me so jealous
Original post by Anonymous
Cuz I can ******* hear it most nights makes me so jealous


Fair
Original post by Anonymous
I thought going to uni halls would give me a great chance to lose my virginity but I have had no luck yet
And why do so many girls have ridiculous standards?

Maybe because you are dismissive of girls. Maybe because their standards aren't ridiculous to them; don't you have any preferences?
What uni are you at?
Have you tried being attractive?
Original post by Surnia
Maybe because you are dismissive of girls. Maybe because their standards aren't ridiculous to them; don't you have any preferences?


Maybe because he is a little m-i-d-g-y to them.
If something isn't working complaining on here alone won't change anything. If they're not accepting you as you are then either change something or give up. You can't change your height but possibly you can change something else, fashion, hairstyle, work out at the gym a lot, etc.
Original post by jay2013
What uni are you at?

Portsmouth
Original post by Surnia
Maybe because you are dismissive of girls. Maybe because their standards aren't ridiculous to them; don't you have any preferences?

No I just want a girl to have fun with casually
Original post by Katerina S.
If something isn't working complaining on here alone won't change anything. If they're not accepting you as you are then either change something or give up. You can't change your height but possibly you can change something else, fashion, hairstyle, work out at the gym a lot, etc.


I can't grow a beard or get taller, I do work out

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