Anxiety dating
I’ve been going on dates for a while now with no luck, and whilst I had built up my self confidence and used to enjoy it, I’ve been ghosted and stung and lost my confidence. I now get anxiety before dates and have even cancelled last minute making up an excuse (especially when it actually looks promising) cause I’m so afraid of it going wrong. (Self sabotage). Then of course I don’t get asked out again.
I don’t know what’s up with me but the more I am into the guy the more I distance, it’s harder to meet up, and I hide all my enthusiasm out of fear. I’ve liked a guy recently (a lot) and he had 0 interest in me. And if I show that I like them they slowly start airing or ghosting me. It just hurts too much. Idk what to do?
I don’t know what’s up with me but the more I am into the guy the more I distance, it’s harder to meet up, and I hide all my enthusiasm out of fear. I’ve liked a guy recently (a lot) and he had 0 interest in me. And if I show that I like them they slowly start airing or ghosting me. It just hurts too much. Idk what to do?
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