My current boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months. He was on his phone texting his friend whilst we were lying next to each other watching a film and I just happened to catch a glimpse of the conversation…
He’s messaged his friend and basically said that my sex drive was unmanageable, if he knew he’d have dipped when he could, how it gets super annoying.. the friend was talking about a girl he’d gone on some dates with for reference.
We had no issues within our sex life as far as I could tell for the first 7+ months, he seemed really into it… he’d initiate sex & seemed like he generally wanted to.
The past 3 months have been awful sexually..
- The very few times we’ve done “it” he’s either ejaculated within seconds (less than 15/20 seconds) or has gone soft before penetrating.
- He never offers to do anything for my pleasure -anymore - fingering etc.
I’m starting to worry about whether he’s still attracted to me or if he actually ever wants to have sex. I wouldn’t say my sex drive is ridiculously high, I only see him on weekends and out of choice would want to do it 1-2 times over the 24 hour period that we spend together. I don’t think 1-2 times is obsessed…
I feel totally embarrassed that he’s gone and spoken to his friend about this & I feel as though he’s made me sound like some sex pest… he’s very attractive & gets a lot of unwanted female attention when we go clubbing etc. I’m simply attracted to him & want the occasional intimacy.
We get on really well most of the time, he’s very affectionate in terms of cuddles/kisses, I’ve met all his friends/family & he always talks about the future.
Are there’s differences likely to end in a failed relationship?
Any advice would be amazing!