So there’s this girl I was chatting with daily on hinge, and we’d been talking for a fair bit. Our original conversation died off, and so I left it for about a month until I decided to shoot her a message again.
Knowing the nature of these apps, I didn’t expect a response. But she actually replied to me, and a new conversation picked up for a few days. A few days ago, she responded to my last message literally instantly (like a minute after I sent mine). Her reply was offering a different day for this idea I suggested, and I agreed to it.
Cue the next day, I sent her a little reminder just to make sure she was ready for tomorrow. I had no response. Then on the day I sent her another message, which had no response. I’m now perplexed and sat wondering if I’ve done something wrong. I can’t see why the dynamic changed so easily, and so I’m unsure what to do.
Should I send her one last message, just saying something along the lines of ‘hey, our conversation has fallen off a bit but I would like to get to know you better. I just wanted to check in and see if you’d be interested carrying this on in person?’
OR should I just leave it. I kinda don’t wanna do this because she’s cool, but at the same time ghosting someone isn’t cool so idk.
Either way I need a break from these apps. They’re exhausting