Why do I not feel attracted to men that I met in RL but still wanting a boyfriend?

The men I do meet in real life don't typically appeal to me, but I'm still in search of a boyfriend, and I don't think most guys my age are interested in long-term relationships, which would just like to have some fun. In addition, the meetto movement will make it difficult for me to find a boyfriend in real life. Now I'm stuck in waiting mode and I don't want to. Yep i'm single. Men do approach me but seem friendly then all i see are friends and nothing much. I hada horrible previous relationship i been in a toxic prevous relationship got 9 ex boyfriends all my previous relationships ended up with breaking up. My mum is going to be a problem with me when it comes to dating men because I can only date men with a learning disbities What do you think about my problem of not being able to get a boyfriend?

Reply 1

Guru Jason

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1) you're probably young so most boys your age aren't Interested in long term thing.

2) just like in the episodes of friend where joey has fantasies Monica, it's it intimacy of a relationship you want not a specific person.

Reply 2

CandacePerry

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Original post by Guru Jason

1) you're probably young so most boys your age aren't Interested in long term thing.

2) just like in the episodes of friend where joey has fantasies Monica, it's it intimacy of a relationship you want not a specific person.

I'm not younger at all . i might look younger then my age but age is 24 yea old . not younger will be turning 25 on saturday nobody in rl evey one seeem to be more intersted in friendships .

Reply 3

Guru Jason

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Original post by CandacePerry

I'm not younger at all . i might look younger then my age but age is 24 yea old . not younger will be turning 25 on saturday nobody in rl evey one seeem to be more intersted in friendships .

24 is still remarkably young to those us in our mid 30s.

Please don't rub it in lmao

Reply 4

CandacePerry

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Original post by Guru Jason

24 is still remarkably young to those us in our mid 30s.

Please don't rub it in lmao

|Is not young unlike a 14 year old . yet i got a baby face and still looked like a teenage . if i don't want to looklike teenage . I also said i'm turning 25 on satureday since is will be my birthday then ,

Reply 5

Nathanielle_

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Original post by CandacePerry

|Is not young unlike a 14 year old . yet i got a baby face and still looked like a teenage . if i don't want to looklike teenage . I also said i'm turning 25 on satureday since is will be my birthday then ,

Still plenty of time... hm, I think the best relationship happen, when you do not expect it. When you are happy with yourself (not 100%, but when you have stuff you like, are happy) then you will be attractive, then socialise, and do not worry. You seem to know, what you want, and that is not a relationship for entertainment purposes. And that is good. When you just want a relationship, it is easy to fall for someone for all the wrong reasons.

Reply 6

CandacePerry

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Original post by Nathanielle_

Still plenty of time... hm, I think the best relationship happen, when you do not expect it. When you are happy with yourself (not 100%, but when you have stuff you like, are happy) then you will be attractive, then socialise, and do not worry. You seem to know, what you want, and that is not a relationship for entertainment purposes. And that is good. When you just want a relationship, it is easy to fall for someone for all the wrong reasons.