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I think some replies are a little extreme. If someone smokes, drinks or vapes it’s their decision, as long as it isn’t forced on you it’s their decision.

For me, the NO’S:

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Bad personal hygiene (e.g. not frequently brushing teeth, hair, washing, etc)

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No ambition

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Lack of responsibility

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Bad attitude towards family, ex’s etc

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Hookup culture (scared of being used and just another number etc)

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too short

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too fat/skinny

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bad spending habits

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excessive bad language

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controlling/aggressive/forceful

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Forces bad habits on to you (e.g. smoking, drinking, drugs if you don’t already do them)

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Tries to show off constantly

YES’S:

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Has ambition / specific aims for their future

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Kindhearted and puts you as a high priority

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Wants to spend time with you

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Helps you out

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Good style

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Doesn’t excessively spend money

Could add more of these but would have to think a lot harder.

of course , its their choice if they want to smoke , hookup , vape etc

i just don't want to be in any sort of relationship whatsoever with people like that.
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