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My penis goes floppy ?? Sex

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Im having a slight problem when trying to have sex, My penis always goes really floppy when im REALLY in the mood or w.e , No my girlfriend isn't the problem. Its me it has to be??

help.. xx

Reply 1

Findlay6

You may be in the mood, but if your concentrating too hard or thinking about what to do too much, even if you dont feel comfortable with your surroundings then you could be put off.

Reply 2

cowsgoquack

some people will suggest that it might be because you're gay, but its probably not this - you're probably just impotent. Has this always happened, or is it a recent thing?

Reply 3

Keese

or perhaps your just nervous...?

Reply 4

blackfish

As long as it's not 3 1/2 Inches and is easily mistaken and inserted as a common storage device, it shouldn't be much of a problem :wink:

Cruel I know, But I had to make that joke :p:

I couldn't resist. I'm sorry!!

Reply 5

MattHummer

cowsgoquack

some people will suggest that it might be because you're gay, but its probably not this - you're probably just impotent. Has this always happened, or is it a recent thing?

hahah way to console him :biggrin:

Reply 6

tehjonny

cowsgoquack

some people will suggest that it might be because you're gay, but its probably not this - you're probably just impotent. Has this always happened, or is it a recent thing?

You say that like being impotent is better than being gay?

OP: You're probs putting too much pressure on yourself or thinking too much about what to do, as someone has already said. Just have fun! I doubt you are actually impotent.

Reply 7

cowsgoquack

oh i dont been like irreversibly congentically impotent, just like impotent because of too much pressure or nervous or something! lol

Reply 8

Anonymous #2

if i go too long w/o finishing this happens to me too. but thats like 30mins +

Reply 9

Anonymous #3

just relax...sometimes booze helps, if not get her to give you a gd hand job b4 you make the final entry!

Reply 10

mixedbotswanalad

buy the little blue pill

Reply 11

polka_dott

Maybe you need to just let go and relax - do you feel nervous or try to concentrate too much on it?!

Reply 12

weirdoooo

some bloke just said booze helps.. not too much or it'll make it harder.. ha harder to keep up rather than physically!

Reply 13

bballer4life

nah, it's unlikely to be impotentcy if he's in his teens, most likely nerves, just relax, and make yourself feel comfortable. Are you using a condom?

Reply 14

kitty09

Well i heard that if you're using a condom that can make a guy loose it. Not sure why, but its really common. When me and my bf had sex it happened to him and he was really embarrased and ashamed, i told him it didnt matter and was most likely a mixture between being nervous, insecure and the condom- either that or the condoms too small and its cutting your blood circulation off. Hope some of this helps, this is all we found out when we were trying to deal with it as it used to really get him down.

Reply 15

Talamascan_Deity

It happens sometimes. Not to me. But from what I hear. (never on Fanfiction though... curious that...) Anywho, echoing what everyone (with a modicum of intelligence) has said, relax. Be calm, be yourself, and don't worry about it.

If it continues... it's her.

Reply 16

Anonymous #4

Well, this happened to my boyfriend when we first tried to have sex. Is this your first time?

You'll find that nervousness can make you lose your erection, but also so could putting on a condom. It took quite a while for my boyfriend to be able to stay erect with a condom on but now it doesn't bother him at all.

Take things slowly, talk to your girlfriend about it. Get comfortable with each other and everything will work out.