Thanks for the welcome.
lol you make me blush.
Well we are a rare commodity :P I would say tsr might not be such a great place to find mature, understanding guys as population is skewed towards a younger age group. I think girls should date guys at least a couple of yrs older as younger guys are less mature.
But a lot of guys when older might get more mature and have some of these qualities. But i would say you'd find guys who are less shallow and more mature at university. Also, i'd say joining up to uni (or other) groups that are based on common interests..might be bollywood, music, dance, asian groups..might help but join some asian(or non asian) volunteering groups or asian charities that make difference to teh community. sure there still might be some guys even in these places who are a bit off..but my advice is talk to a guy for a long time before seeing whether he is long term relationship material. SOme guys hide their real selves till in a relationship. See how they behave with other women in the household like their sisters, their mothers, their female friends- what comments they make about them. Also how they treat people of different levels eg. restaurant staff etc. That says a lot about character.
lol i sound so full of myself and i write too much..might be all the psychology and counselling ive done lol. but im not perfect i have many flaws as well...that maybe younger guys don't have. Younger guys might be more fun, more outgoing etc. so its a balance.