Guys don't seem to like nice girls

You are not looking properly I'm afraid. You are saying you are seeing guys with bitchy girls, obviously what these guys want is easy sex and not a relationship. By saying this I mean that you are only looking at this type of guy and disregarding/ignoring the actual nice guys that actually like nice girls (yes, those that are not surrounded by bitchy girls).

I'm not, I'm always looking for the "guy at the back". Those kind of guys are way too intimidating, and usually shallow. Besides, I'm not talking about one off flings, they define themselves as being in a relationship.

You sure you're not just calling these girls horrible bitches because they got with the guy you like?

Define "guy at the back".

Well maybe I just mean respectful by not taking people for granted, and giving people a chance. Yeah you're right, it is unhealthy. I get walked over all the time, and if I had a boyfriend I'd put his feelings first before my own.

Besides, a lot of times, we aren't even talking about "attractive girls". Fair enough if I'm unattractive, I honestly don't know where I stand tbh, but I look at other girls who are nasty, vulgar, false, and supposedly by most standards physically unattractive, and I don't understand how they're considered attractive to all these guys, and I can't even get a guy to talk to me

I'm only 18, but I only live once. At the end of the day, I want someone to have fun with, a relationship certainly, but nothing intense. I don't want to be the innocent 30 year old woman that gets married to the first person that gives her attention. Screw all the people that say uni is meant to be the best time of your life. This is exactly like school

Well I mean for relationships... or, "relationships". Not flings and such

Nice girls are usually nice to compensate for not being attractive. It's just the society we live in, I'd love to be proven wrong.

That I've ever known...

It's so frustrating. I always see them be with the bitchy, shallow girls, and then when these girls take off with someone they think is better, the guys turn round and go on about how girls aren't nice and are shallow... but these are the same guys that ignore the girls that could be "girlfriend material", for whatever reason. I don't get it

Clearly, I have no luck with guys whatsoever. I even started to think if I was less easy going and polite I'd get more attention. Since university I got compliments about my looks (Which I never got before), but they still don't bother to engage with me

A relationship should be equal, If you always put a guy first he'll think he's got it easy and will take advantage of that.

Well I don't find fake girls attractive, I have an ex that IMO was beautiful, now she has fake breasts, fake nails, wears high heels everywhere and does a lot of modelling and I think she looks horrific so we're not all after that look. I don't believe you can't get a guy to talk to you, there are thousands of guys out there looking for a decent girl (myself included)

I agree with you on that, I too was lead to believe that uni was going to be amazing but you're right it's just like school. However it shouldnt be hard to meet someone, are you not part of a social or anything?

pretty sure you're confusing this with nice guy syndrome where nice guys are overlooked for bad boys. I myself and can speak for most other men would prefer a nice girl over a shallow bitch any day, why wouldnt you? Is this a trick question?

I disgree. I know a few girls who are relatively quiet yet pretty. One in particular is in the extreme of both - extremely quiet and pretty.

Huh? I don't understand your point. I really think it works both ways...

I mean you'd think if this was such a common problem "amongst guys" I would have met one of you lot by now. There are few things that I can say I'm good at, but I'm certainly observant

Oh stop it!

You're always flirting with me like that!

That I've ever known...

It's so frustrating. I always see them be with the bitchy, shallow girls, and then when these girls take off with someone they think is better, the guys turn round and go on about how girls aren't nice and are shallow... but these are the same guys that ignore the girls that could be "girlfriend material", for whatever reason. I don't get it

Clearly, I have no luck with guys whatsoever. I even started to think if I was less easy going and polite I'd get more attention. Since university I got compliments about my looks (Which I never got before), but they still don't bother to engage with me

Lol, you wish.

Huh? I don't understand your point. I really think it works both ways...

I mean you'd think if this was such a common problem "amongst guys" I would have met one of you lot by now. There are few things that I can say I'm good at, but I'm certainly observant

That I've ever known...

It's so frustrating. I always see them be with the bitchy, shallow girls, and then when these girls take off with someone they think is better, the guys turn round and go on about how girls aren't nice and are shallow... but these are the same guys that ignore the girls that could be "girlfriend material", for whatever reason. I don't get it

Clearly, I have no luck with guys whatsoever. I even started to think if I was less easy going and polite I'd get more attention. Since university I got compliments about my looks (Which I never got before), but they still don't bother to engage with me

Seriously, I can't talk to guys. Maybe it's cause I've never had any father figures in my life, and they've never really been nice to me when I was younger. There doesn't seem to be enough guys around, it's always girls. I just make more female friends whenever I go out and try out a new society or whatever.