Thoughts on ignoring a girl's texts

I've been texting a girl one and a half months now and we haven't met up. Just grow some balls and set a time and a date...

Bad idea!

If I stop hearing from a guy, I assume he isn't interested. I don't wait around and I don't play games, and I don't want a guy who comes across as flaky or unreliable.

Only ever be yourself.

and you never will because she knows she can contact you whenever she wants.

Why would she wanna meet up if you haven't made it clear that your time is valuable? thats what friendzoning is and you're in it.

Best thing to do: cut your losses and move on.

and you never will because she knows she can contact you whenever she wants.

Why would she wanna meet up if you haven't made it clear that your time is valuable? thats what friendzoning is and you're in it.

Best thing to do: cut your losses and move on.

Ive been talking to this girl for like 2 weeks now but she texts me good morning everyday and attempts to make small talk random like asking how are you etc. I'm pretty sure thats a quick trip to the friendzone and replying makes you look needy sometimes so I'm gonna ignore her texts for the next few days.

Do you think its true that if you make yourself less accessible it increases attraction?

No mate. I will and am next month and that's because I don't play games like you.

I'm friendzoned yet she makes an effort to talk to me? Yeah. Like Sophisticated said, you have a warped view on things.

Ive been talking to this girl for like 2 weeks now but she texts me good morning everyday and attempts to make small talk random like asking how are you etc. I'm pretty sure thats a quick trip to the friendzone and replying makes you look needy sometimes so I'm gonna ignore her texts for the next few days.

Do you think its true that if you make yourself less accessible it increases attraction?

calm down. We haven't even been on a date yet, I don't owe her anything at this point and it sets a bad precedent even if I do end up going out with her.

Not like I want to play these type of games but if I have to then whatever.

I can say from experience that ignoring text messages, phone calls and just generally failing to invest time and effort in a girl and her advances does wonders. Having a girl "like you" is not some magical barrier or finish line that you cross and can claim that you've "won"....there's more to it than that. You can still **** it up any minute. If you're too available and interested then SHE WILL lose interest in you, regardless of how much she liked you a week ago. When you're in a relationship that's when you become dependable and start putting her first, not when you're in the opening stages ffs.

But this is just advice. This is simply anecdotal evidence and things I've picked up from experience. Don't get all bum-sore and irate just because you don't like reading it put down so bluntly.

i know its already been stressed but this seems true. Im not ignoring her on purpose anymore i just cant be bothered with it, yet she always the one to initiate text convos with things like 'missing me?' or 'how are you?' etc

Ive been talking to this girl for like 2 weeks now but she texts me good morning everyday and attempts to make small talk random like asking how are you etc. I'm pretty sure thats a quick trip to the friendzone and replying makes you look needy sometimes so I'm gonna ignore her texts for the next few days.

Do you think its true that if you make yourself less accessible it increases attraction?

She obviously likes you. Now stop playing games

I asked her out, agreed to meetup this week but now says she's got exams but is willing to meet next week. Which sounds like excuses to me not like exams just suddenly pop up. I'm not going to waste my time and end up being a texting buddy.

I asked her out, agreed to meetup this week but now says she's got exams but is willing to meet next week. Which sounds like excuses to me not like exams just suddenly pop up. I'm not going to waste my time and end up being a texting buddy.

Its ok, decided Im not going to pursue this incase she rejects me which is most likely to happen considering we've already been talking via text way too long without meeting up.

Me and my current boyfriend spoke to each other via calls and texts for 7 months before meeting - you clearly aren't serious or a patient person.