Hi guys,
I just wanted some advice on this situation. I am 20 years old, I live at home with my Mum. I pay her £70 a week to live here.
The thing that's really starting to cause huge arguments is that she goes through my things. She goes through my bedroom, she will open my mail.
I have tried to speak to her about this but she says that it's her house and apparently I am untidy and unorganised, which I am not, I'm just not up to her level of obsessive cleaning that's why she feels the need to go through my things and read my mail. I tidy my bedroom most Sundays, I take my dirty washing downstairs everyday. I'm never really here, I just use my bedroom to sleep in really.
I came home today from work and she had 'tidied' my bedroom but she had stood on and thrown away this box I keep locked on top of my wardrobe, hadn't even looked through to see what was in there. It has loads of old memories in, like letters from old friends, school things, pictures of my Grandad, my Grandad's ring in a box, things that I would like to keep hence why I keep them locked in a box on my wardrobe.
I pretty much snapped, I was SO angry I was crying and she just doesn't seem to care. She laughed at me and told me not to be so stupid. She can't see that she was wrong, then she starts screaming at me and calling me names such as a bitch and a slag.
I would love to move out but I just can't afford it at the moment.
What can I do?