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Does porn make any other girls self conscious about their bodies?

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Reply 80
Girls: guys lust after you for your voice, your hair and the way it drapes, the way your hips swing, your lips move, your eyes shine. It's absolutely insane to think that a guy - I mean a real person who is grounded - is thinking of anyone or anything else than you when he undresses you, and makes passionate love to you. Seriously - it's really not about measurements or any sort of particular "type."

And guys, honestly it's mostly about what you say and how you say it and how you touch her and make her feel - especially if you mean it. And of course there so much else. However, d*ck size is of negligible importance - even if she says it's important, almost always it's to test your confidence. Don't play that game.
Original post by Lewroll
Maybe I am :frown:

But there are a lot of attractive porn stars. That probably helped them get the job in the first place :biggrin:


Agreed, what about Aylar Lie (the Basshunter girl) ?
Reply 82
Original post by Anonymous

Original post by Anonymous
In porn, the girls mostly have huge boobs, flat toned stomachs, pert bums....makes me feel like less than beautiful when I think of myself compared to them. I feel ashamed of the cellulite I have, stretch marks...etc. I don't like my boyfriend to see me properly in full light naked, because I know that I am a disappointment compared to the women that men look at online.

Do other girls feel like this?


For me (and various guys/girls I've spoken to about this), porn works better when it's kept in a semi-real or cartoonish context, by which I mean people who don't resemble anyone you would ever really know or meet on the street (huge boobs, non-existent waist etc) in situations that would never happen! That way you get the visual thrill that kind of needs to be exaggerated (since that's all you have to work with), and no real emotional connection with the people in it, which could otherwise lead to a pretty depressing feeling afterwards!

I don't think anyone who leaves their house once in a while would ever expect or even hope normal people to look like that!

Also, these people are aiming 100% for what LOOKS good, not what necessarily FEELS good, and I'm sure your boyfriend is happier to have a warm, soft and caring girl curled up next to him than some brittle, sticky porn star!
I dont really care, most are trashy blondes with silicone boobs, I'm a brunette and far from Pammy Anderson so I couldn't be further from them but happy with what I got :smile:
Original post by Micawber
Girls: guys lust after you for your voice, your hair and the way it drapes, the way your hips swing, your lips move, your eyes shine. It's absolutely insane to think that a guy - I mean a real person who is grounded - is thinking of anyone or anything else than you when he undresses you, and makes passionate love to you. Seriously - it's really not about measurements or any sort of particular "type."


Only the other night I slept with a 5/10 and imagined Tori Black the whole way through.














OK, I'm lying.


















She was a 3/10.
Reply 85
Original post by maskofsanity
Only the other night I slept with a 5/10 and imagined Tori Black the whole way through.
OK, I'm lying.
She was a 3/10.


Haha. But in my opinion Tori Black is the only hot porn star out there. You will find much hotter girls in real life who your mates won't be able to see naked as well. They may also be intelligent enough to have a career that involves using their brain.
definitelyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
I hate the bodies in porn, they're SO perfect, they even have attractive vaginas - it's depressing
Reply 87
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Reply 88
to give you a simple and truthful answer: yes.
Original post by TheProdigy2k9
win win win!

Ha, I do try. :biggrin:
Yes.. my boyfriend had porn on his phone and I found it while I was looking through photos of a gig he'd been to.. he was incredibly defensive saying things like all men watch/look at porn, which I don't doubt, but it wasn't the fact that he had it on his phone, it was what the girls looked like that bothered me.

I'm not a skinny girl by any stretch of the imagination (very large, actually) hence the sponsored slim, but seeing the kinds of girls he had photos of made me thing well do you actually like me at all? He'd never download a picture of a girl who looked like me.. and that's what upset me, rather than the porn itself.
Original post by Gemma :)!

I'm not a skinny girl by any stretch of the imagination (very large, actually) hence the sponsored slim, but seeing the kinds of girls he had photos of made me thing well do you actually like me at all? He'd never download a picture of a girl who looked like me.. and that's what upset me, rather than the porn itself.


I know exactly how you feel. I'm rather 'curvy' to put it politely with rather large boobs, and when looking through porn pictures my (ex) boyfriend had downloaded I found that they were all very skinny, and I mean very skinny women with tiny little breasts and it did make me wonder, "why on earth are you with me?"
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Reply 92
Original post by Gemma :)!
Yes.. my boyfriend had porn on his phone and I found it while I was looking through photos of a gig he'd been to.. he was incredibly defensive saying things like all men watch/look at porn, which I don't doubt, but it wasn't the fact that he had it on his phone, it was what the girls looked like that bothered me.

I'm not a skinny girl by any stretch of the imagination (very large, actually) hence the sponsored slim, but seeing the kinds of girls he had photos of made me thing well do you actually like me at all? He'd never download a picture of a girl who looked like me.. and that's what upset me, rather than the porn itself.



Original post by Princesschickenbelly
I know exactly how you feel. I'm rather 'curvy' to put it politely with rather large boobs, and when looking through porn pictures my (ex) boyfriend had downloaded I found that they were all very skinny, and I mean very skinny women with tiny little breasts and it did make me wonder, "why on earth are you with me?"


To put the shoe on the other foot, are you telling me that women don't think of muscley men with big cocks when they masturbate? That you think of your boyfriends?


I personally think real women are generally much hotter than pornstars.
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Original post by Jakelee
To put the shoe on the other foot, are you telling me that women don't think of muscley men with big cocks when they masturbate? That you think of your boyfriends?


I don't have photos of other men on my phone if that's what you mean, no.
What you think about is up to you. Although actually I always thought about my boyfriend until I finished with him..
Nope. There is BBW porn. And some of those ladies are just as beautiful as the typical female pornstar.
Reply 95
Original post by Anonymous
In porn, the girls mostly have huge boobs, flat toned stomachs, pert bums....makes me feel like less than beautiful when I think of myself compared to them. I feel ashamed of the cellulite I have, stretch marks...etc. I don't like my boyfriend to see me properly in full light naked, because I know that I am a disappointment compared to the women that men look at online.

Do other girls feel like this?


As a man, I wouldn't think any less of you for having stretch marks and cellulite. Women that appear in porn are hardly representative of what men look for in a woman. Yeah, they look nice, but you wouldn't want to be in a relationship with one. I'd much prefer a real woman :smile:
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Original post by Jakelee
To put the shoe on the other foot, are you telling me that women don't think of muscley men with big cocks when they masturbate? That you think of your boyfriends?


I personally think real women are generally much hotter than pornstars.


I don't really think about anyone when I masturbate, I just do it. But my fantasy/daydreams always involve my boyfriend, yes, as he's the person i'm most turned on by.
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loook ime sure he doesnt mind it if hes your boyfriend! us guys to be honest we dont really mind! we know ulot aint perfect... same way u girls know we aint perfect but thats wat seperates us from reality and fantasy. AND not all of us like skinny girls.... to be honest i like having something to hold onto when having sex :biggrin: :wink:
Only posting as Anonymous since my younger brother uses this website :s-smilie:

I have never really watched porn so I'm not sure just how much my opinions really matter, but all you guys there, a large penis doesn't mean that the woman will enjoy the sex more. Personally I prefer them average or a little below, I might be build too small or tight I don't know, but I have slept with 3 guys where one of them was very above average, and it was directly painfull in most positions. Whenever he got a little too excited it felt like I was being punched in the stomatch and oral sex made my jaw hurt after a few min.

When most of us meet a nice guy in a bar, meet a few more times and finally one asks about the a relationship, we don't demand that you guys drop your pants so that we can check if we are happy with the size. :biggrin: In fact we tend just to accept whatever size you come with.

And since I don't watch porn, I don't really have much to compare too, but if your boyfriend is with you, remember there's probably more to it then just sex, and if he doesn't go soft when you undress he clearly must like something that he sees. :wink:
Reply 99
Original post by Doke
It found that as many women as men watched porn and that women tended to be pickier about what was in it. For example, a survey of men were asked about what they liked to see in terms of breasts and most guys weren't worried about size: so long as there were boobs there, they were happy. Contrastingly, most of the women interviewed said that they vastly preferred porn that featured big penises.


It's just another proof of how it's much harder to be a man when it comes to dating, relationships and sex.

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