Friend with benefits told me "he adored me"

...He liked me a lot and I was very special to him.

We were both sober, we were with a friend at a bar...she'd just gone to the toilet, he seemed sincere in the way he said it.

I wonder if he is trying to point out that he would like more between us than just sex. Or maybe he was just saying it?

What do you think? This stuff does happen where people fall for their **** buddy....or do you think Im reading too much into it?

Who, other than Will from 'The Inbetweeners', tells a girl that they "adore" them?

Yep. **** buddies always turns out with one of them liking the other romantically and it ****s it up

Tbh, I do like him too. Im just a bit more closed with my emotions and have learnt, that for me, jumping head first into a relationship has caused me a lot of heartache.

So I thought friends with benefits was a good way to have fun, not get too heavy ....and hopefully not painful like my last break up was, as the guy really did treat me like utter ****.

So whilst I dont have a problem with this...and if the suggestion were to come up I would definitely consider "giving it a go" so to speak. Its just our dynamic is pretty good, in that we have fun...dont get jealous of one another going out, or going on holiday with the lads/girls. In essence I dont want to ruin what we have in case the r'ship doesnt work out....however maybe the current situation wont work anyway, because feelings have changed...


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Everyone's got a **** buddy except me, it seems. :-(

i dont have one but i would like one.

Everyone's got a **** buddy except me, it seems. :-(

In my opinion, the whole idea of **** buddies is so childish. Have sex at night and then ignore each other during the day.

Relationships are way better and can actually be more fun too.

i dont have one but i would like one.