Meh I'm closely the same at the moment. I only take to a single person from high school now and that's only because I work with him. Never speak to anyone from college anymore besides the odd conversation since the day we finished. All I have friends wise is people I've met through the net and stuff that I go out with now and again.
I recently realised in life that I'm never a person to make up with people. Like I've fell out with friends in the past and it's just totally died, never spoke to them again. Where as other people in the group have fallen out and it's suddenly all been okay again in a matter of no time at all magically. In my head it's because they don't respect me very much, and I don't hold alot of value as a friend in terms of what I can do for them. But then again I'd say being friends with someone isn't about what eachother can do for eachother, more just having things in common and having fun doing whatever.
What sucks most in not having many friends is the lack of someone to do stuff with. I'm interested in urbex (google 28dayslater) but sometimes sites are just too dangerous to go alone. Fancy going festivals? I wouldn't have much fun on my own to be totally honest. My phone very rarely starts buzzing with someone wanting to talk to me. If I disappeared for afew days it's 99% likely no one except work would notice.
The longer it goes on though the further I sink. The more unattractive and worthless I feel. The less intelligent (Fcuk me I feel thick as pig**** even with 8 grade C GCSE's compared to some people on here) I feel and the further away from ever having a decent relationship I feel. Last time I was seeing someone was 3 years ago but it was truely awful, wish I had never slept with her and wasted so much £ as she treated me terribly. Before that was another 3 years and even that one had treated me like **** for the last 6 years until recently when I cut her out my life for good, it just had to be done even if I still think about her every bloody day. I've never been on a date and think of it as unthinkable. I'm confident the the face in talking to anyone in shops etc, but taking a girl on a date I can't imagine.
Yet besides having no one that really cares. The lads in work all say I'm awesome etc and really good fun? Always having a laugh with them. I guess if it's an enviroment that they can't choose to have me there or not then I fit in and have endless conversations with whoever about whatever. It's the actual optional social encounters that people count me out of.
Oh well, foundation degree in September possibly, possibly meet some new people etc.
Apologies about ranting, I just started typing and never stopped. First time I've ever actually put anything about this anywhere besides inside my head.