God, this is so depressing. Basically, at the moment I have no friends or social life whatsoever, and I'm so lonely. I feel I'm just existing rather than living, and I have no idea how to turn things around.
It's not as though I've not had friends or a social life in the past. I'm very friendly and outgoing usually. Basically, I had a long term relationship, and our social circle was made up mainly of other couples. When we broke up, I felt I needed a clean break, so I chose a uni that was hundreds of miles away.
I loved uni. I had a group of close friends and flatmates, would go clubbing etc a few times a week, I was in a couple of clubs etc. After I graduated last year, I moved back home as I missed my family and seeing my young niece growing up.
In the 3 years I was gone, the majority of my friends back here got into serious relationships, got married, had kids etc. I literally have nothing in common anymore with them, and though we meet up, it's only occasionally. They are all settled in their lives and seem past the going out stage, whereas I'm single and would still like an active social life.
My whole life now consists of going to work, coming home. I see my sister once a week, when we go for a drink/meal/cinema etc, and my other sister and niece every 1-2 weeks. And that's it.
I can't keep on like this. I want to get out there and live life, but it's not as if I can just go to a club/the pub/cinema/bowling etc on my own. It seems so hard to make new friends the older you get. I worry that if I carry on like this, my life is going to be so lonely, with little chance of marriage or children. After all, who would want to date someone who has no social life?
Has anyone else been in this situation? What did you do to turn it around? I would be happy with just one or two friends to be honest.