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GIRLS: Have your boyfriends asked you for anal sex, if so, did you say yes..?

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Original post by Hazular
I've said that I'll do it when my boyfriend allows me to shove a cucumber up his arse.
Fair's fair. I'm not having it up me if he won't.


You sound like fun :sexface:
Original post by Harry.C
Do you know what anal sex is?


course i do, ive watch nearly as much porn as your dad.
After the way my friend described it to me a few months ago I don't think I'll ever want to try it :eek:
I'm bloody traumatised just by a description.
Reply 23
If you say no, your boyfriend should respect your decision.

My boyfriend and I have talked about it. He said he doesn't have a strong urge to do it and doesn't seem to mind that I'm not interested. I tried it before and it was incredibly painful and there was zero pleasure for me. If my boyfriend really wanted it, I might be willing to try it one more time, but if I have the same experience, I would not want to do it again after that, and I know my boyfriend would respect my decision. I'm willing to be adventurous and pleasure him in any way I can, but if it's incredibly painful for me... it's not fun.
Reply 24
Original post by Hazular
I've said that I'll do it when my boyfriend allows me to shove a cucumber up his arse.
Fair's fair. I'm not having it up me if he won't.

This is the response my boyfriend got. :tongue:
Reply 25
Original post by Hazular
I've said that I'll do it when my boyfriend allows me to shove a cucumber up his arse.
Fair's fair. I'm not having it up me if he won't.


What are you gonna do if he calls your bluff and agrees lol.
Reply 26
If it doesn't seem like something you would enjoy, I'm not sure why it would be a problem to not do it.
Reply 27
Original post by insoms
What are you gonna do if he calls your bluff and agrees lol.


Meh, I'll try anything once. I'm a keeper of my word.
Reply 28
Just do it and if his dick is suddenly brown, you can't be held responsible.
Reply 29
Gay people do it all the time.
Original post by TheDubs

Original post by TheDubs
Girls who agree to this have no dignity in my opinion, they can take it up the backside for all I care


Exactly this!!. Once you get a dick up your ass male or female you lose my respect. Peoeple have to know the limits. Seems like some people are willing to try whatever dirty **** there is to try. Also agree that i dont really care what these guys or girls do with their bodies. Everybody has their life to live
Original post by Limesasquatch

Original post by Limesasquatch
course i do, ive watch nearly as much porn as your dad.


:rofl: :wtf:
Original post by Tsukuyomi
Exactly this!!. Once you get a dick up your ass male or female you lose my respect. Peoeple have to know the limits. Seems like some people are willing to try whatever dirty **** there is to try. Also agree that i dont really care what these guys or girls do with their bodies. Everybody has their life to live


So you don't care what other people do with their bodies, but you do care if they do anal because they need to know the limits before you lose all respect for them?

Seriously, read what you just said. Two completely contradictory things in quick succession.
Its a bit selfish of girls to complain about the pain.
Your man is enjoying himself possibly more the than he would 'the other way'.:redface:

EDIT: hahahahaha
(edited 12 years ago)
Reply 34
Please DONT..

"Cursed is the one who approaches his wife in her rectum" (Reported by Imaam Ahmad, 2/479; see also Saheeh al-Jaami', 5865).

"The one who has intercourse with a menstruating woman, or with a woman in her rectum, or who goes to a fortune-teller, has disbelieved in what was revealed to Muhammad." (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, no. 1/243; see also Saheeh al-Jaami', 5918).

“Allaah is not too shy to tell the truth” three times. “Do not have intercourse with women in their back passages.” Narrated by Ibn Maajah (1924); classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Ibn Maajah.

not that i support the bf/gf relationship or the fornication either ..
Original post by KalaKutta
"The one who has intercourse with a menstruating woman, or with a woman in her rectum, or who goes to a fortune-teller, has disbelieved in what was revealed to Muhammad." (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, no. 1/243; see also Saheeh al-Jaami', 5918).


Interesting that they stuck the bit about fortune tellers in there...

"Don't do people up the arse, don't shag while she is on... oh and don't go to fortune tellers either!:angry:"
Original post by bbq1948
he asked, I declined because it doesn't seem like something I would enjoy

edit: LOL! I'm sorry my sexual preferences seem to bother some of you


Negged you. You can't say you won't enjoy it - if you've never tried it
it just feels like having a big poo :frown: (im a girl)
Yes, he has. Yes, I agreed. I really don't see the big deal in it, or why people would think it's disgusting? Also, it didn't hurt anywhere near as much as most girls make out, I'd say many of those that say it's excruciating either need to learn what lube is or man up. There's not a lot of sensation, though, so it's kind of difficult to actually enjoy (for the girl). Besides, me and my boyfriend don't do it that often, because although he says it does feel really good, he much prefers ordinary sex because of the energy, and because we both get to enjoy it.
If you're curious about trying it and never have, there's not really any harm in trying it. But, if you really don't like it, make sure your boyfriend knows this, and don't let him try and pressure you into it again. Because sure, try everything once, but if you don't like it, don't try and teach yourself to like it or put up with pain just for your boyfriend, (like some girls I know have done) because that's just weak, respect yourself.
Original post by KalaKutta
Please DONT..

"Cursed is the one who approaches his wife in her rectum" (Reported by Imaam Ahmad, 2/479; see also Saheeh al-Jaami', 5865).

"The one who has intercourse with a menstruating woman, or with a woman in her rectum, or who goes to a fortune-teller, has disbelieved in what was revealed to Muhammad." (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, no. 1/243; see also Saheeh al-Jaami', 5918).

“Allaah is not too shy to tell the truth” three times. “Do not have intercourse with women in their back passages.” Narrated by Ibn Maajah (1924); classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Ibn Maajah.

not that i support the bf/gf relationship or the fornication either ..

If we all followed the Torah we'd all be dead by now!

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