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So if the term ''Muslim'' can be applied to a crime, then where do we set the boundary?

I mean you could also apply the term ''Black'' to every situation that involves a Black perpetrator. Most rioters were black, a disproportionate number of rapists are Black, but does that mean the entire Black community is to blame? No.
Reply 101
Original post by harmony_01
I come from a Pakistani background. Parts of my (Punjabi) culture are misogynistic, not being allowed to wear the headscarf- too extreme, wives having to look after their mother-in-laws, being solely a housewife, being disreputable as a divorced woman etc. But nowhere, not once, even in my visit to Pakistan, did I find taking girls for sex, a cultural trait.


Of course, there are social problems in Pakistan but nowhere to the extent Western media presuppose and slander. If anything, the fact that we legalise the use of pornography, can contribute evidence of helping to facilitate rape.


To be honest, I think its because family networks are tight and they arnt meant to have sex before marriage, they are men who are horny and their own women are out of bounds to them, they cant have a proper relationship with a white girl so instead just use them for sex, usually going for the younger ones as they are easier bait. I actually know a white lad like this, he says he prefers chatting up girls younger than him as they give out sex more!! (however they dont go round in gangs forcing themselves upon them, common opinion among the friend circle is hes a bit of a 'nonce' and he was also only about 16/17) :eek:
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Reply 102
Original post by Riderz
If a man walked near a cliff then was pushed off, would you blame the man for walking close to the cliff or the man who pushed him?

They are 13 years old for gods sake; young, impressionable, flattered by the attention and then drugged and raped. And yet you try and blame them in any way for it. Hmm, yeah. Good luck with that one.


Its excuse/divertion tactic No# 1285 - blame the victim to shift the discussion from the cultural and ethnic links to the stupid, slutty, asking for it child.
Original post by Chloe xxx
To be honest, I think its because family networks are tight and they arnt meant to have sex before marriage, they are men who are horny and their own women are out of bounds to them, they cant have a proper relationship with a white girl so instead just use them for sex, usually going for the younger ones as they are easier bait. I actually know a white lad like this, he says he prefers chatting up girls younger than him as they give out sex more!! (however they dont go round in gangs forcing themselves upon them, common opinion among the friend circle is hes a bit of a 'nonce' and he was also only about 16/17) :eek:


I'm Muslim and unmarried, yet I didn't turn to sex gangs. Nor do I know any Pakistanis like this. And some of these idiots that participated were married with kids, so they were getting some at home. Poor excuse. Fact of the matter is, you have just said it for me in the emboldened part, if you start hanging around with the wrong sort of people that go buy alcohol, do drugs and free-mixing with these girls, you're going to end up like that.
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Reply 104
Original post by harmony_01
I'm Muslim and unmarried, yet I didn't turn to sex gangs. Nor do I know any Pakistanis like this. And some of these idiots that participated were married with kids, so they were getting some at home. Poor excuse. Fact of the matter is, you have just said it for me in the emboldened part, if you start hanging around with the wrong sort of people that go buy alcohol, do drugs and free-mixing with these girls, you're going to end up like that.


The person I was referring to is a dopey 18 year old friend of mine whos in the army (he was about 16 when he made those comments). Hes a bit different to gangs of men often 30+ who deliberately get girls pissed and force themselves on them. Hes just a moronic highly sexed teenage boy.

You might not have met any like that, but where do you live? Also I dont think merely being muslim is going to make any horny man turn to sex gangs. Blaming it completely on islam I agree is incorrect because Quran does say to respect womem in many ways, although peoples interpretation of Islam obviously differs as it does with christianity.

I dont hang around with anyone like that, I know much better. However, when girls are young, if they dont have much, a crappy homelife etc and low self esteem these men make them feel flattered and give an opportunity to do something (these girls are often bored, have nothing to do, no money etc), and buy them stuff. I am MUCH more aware of possible dangers and things like that now than when I was 13/14, you are blind then and dont see that this sort of thing is or could turn to abuse.

I find it saddening so many don't think about these things and instead just blame the girls for being irresponsible. Its wrong and it makes me feel sick to be honest. Won't even contemplate the cultural links of the perpetrators and the well known issues their origin countries have with regards to treatment of woman, yet are 100% sure the girls are dirty stopouts who are irresponsible and should know better. Talk about hypocrisy and commenting on the lives of others whom you do not know
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Reply 105
Original post by harmony_01
I'm Muslim and unmarried, yet I didn't turn to sex gangs. Nor do I know any Pakistanis like this. And some of these idiots that participated were married with kids, so they were getting some at home. Poor excuse. Fact of the matter is, you have just said it for me in the emboldened part, if you start hanging around with the wrong sort of people that go buy alcohol, do drugs and free-mixing with these girls, you're going to end up like that.


Also just because you dont know any pakistanis who do this (well, thats what you think), doesnt mean that there arnt any. Look at all the cases, there clearly is.
Reply 106
Original post by Chloe xxx
Prepare for the apologists to come out in force, with a few of the classic muslim/south asian excuses-

Excuse 1# They arnt a 'real' muslim.
Excuse 2# How do you even know they are muslim, or pakistani or even asian. They could all be white just with arabic names :wink:
Excuse 3# Your wacist/fascist and have an agenda against muslims
Excuse 4# What about all the white rapists, theres more of them
Excuse 5# What about Catholic Priests, no one ever mentions their religion might be a cause of their crimes (yes they do, and funnily enough no catholic apologists come out crazily defending in a sickening way)
Excuse #6 It can't have anything at all to do with Islam or backward culture, the religion is peaceful and so are muslims (we all know this is a joke)

And so on...I could be here all day :smile:


1. There ARE rapists of every colour and ethnicity - there have been other "rapist gangs" and traffickers before

2. I don't see anyone defending these people - what they did was sick and they should be punished to the fullest extent of the law

I'm not sure your point. When Catholics/Christians etc do something wrong, it is due to them. When people of another faith do it, it is somehow down to their religion? You're obviously pushing an extremely biased agenda, just not sure why
Original post by Chloe xxx
The person I was referring to is a dopey 18 year old friend of mine whos in the army (he was about 16 when he made those comments). Hes a bit different to gangs of men often 30+ who deliberately get girls pissed and force themselves on them. Hes just a moronic highly sexed teenage boy.

You might not have met any like that, but where do you live? Also I dont think merely being muslim is going to make any horny man turn to sex gangs. Blaming it completely on islam I agree is incorrect because Quran does say to respect womem in many ways, although peoples interpretation of Islam obviously differs as it does with christianity.

I dont hang around with anyone like that, I know much better. However, when girls are young, if they dont have much, a crappy homelife etc and low self esteem these men make them feel flattered and give an opportunity to do something (these girls are often bored, have nothing to do, no money etc), and buy them stuff. I am MUCH more aware of possible dangers and things like that now than when I was 13/14, you are blind then and dont see that this sort of thing is or could turn to abuse.

I find it saddening so many don't think about these things and instead just blame the girls for being irresponsible. Its wrong and it makes me feel sick to be honest. Won't even contemplate the cultural links of the perpetrators and the well known issues their origin countries have with regards to treatment of woman, yet are 100% sure the girls are dirty stopouts who are irresponsible and should know better. Talk about hypocrisy and commenting on the lives of others whom you do not know


Where I live is irrelevant and I'm not blaming these girls. I'm simply saying this is a case of hanging out with the wrong crowd. If you intend to find sin, you'll find it. I don't blame culture or religion but these idiots and then the Pakistani community from where they come from*for neglecting this problem.


*I hadn't the slightest clue these things go on and I don't live in the same area. And I suspect for most Pakistanis, it's either one or the other or both.
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Reply 108
So much hate... :frown:
Reply 109
Original post by Playa10
Well all you have done is report me, so of course i would get warning points. And my abusive language is a responsive to your abusive language. Don't attempt to apply double standards.

Where have I verbally abused you like you have me and laughed at your sexual assault as a child...nowhere. Are you really that blind and one sided? And yes I will report you because you were nasty and abusive for no reason at all.

It's funny how you say that muslims are allowed to beat women...have you even read the book properly?

I didnt say muslims are allowed to beat women, I posted a book written by an Islamic Scholar stating how and when to beat your wife. Sorry you don't like the fact this happened as it makes your religion look worse than it already does to a lot of people. Why dont you take it up with the Islamic Scholar who wrote it on his incorrect views of Islam? Only arnt scholars meant to be the most knowledgeable of muslims when it comes to Islam?

Perhaps you should look into English history, whereby women were sold on the open market like cattle, and this was merely 100 years ago. Who are you to tell other people they don't treat women with respect? A simple research into Islam would demonstrate that Islam has always treated women with more respect than the west. But of course you just merely ignore the past, no there really is no point in debating on this topic with a cretin.

Islam and the west are two different things, Islam is a religion the west is a geographical area and a term used to describe western europe and the US, in general. As you'll see ive stated numerous times I dont even think this sex gang thing is because of muslims, the thread title involves muslims and I posted the OP will come accross many apologists, which they have. Western SOCIETY has moved on and society in Islamic states hasnt. It isnt just in islamic states it hasnt moved on, there is also lots of backward christian practices still going on in parts of africa.

And as i said, it is not only me that has behaved in such manner towards you, everyone on tsr hates you. Can you really blame anyone for that? You continuously make ignorant statements. You can't debate, but utter nonesense. Your history speaks for itself.


No I dont, and no they dont. They don't know me, and my opinion is VERY similar to many posters here. If I could manage to care enough I'd hate you, I imagine many people do with the disgusting ****e you write.
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Reply 110
Original post by Chloe xxx
No I dont, and no they dont. They don't know me, and my opinion is VERY similar to many posters here. If I could manage to care enough I'd hate you, I imagine many people do with the disgusting ****e you write.


For ****s sake look at your previous statements...how can you not see that? You have called me, inter alia, 'vile' 'pig' . I need not elaborate.

And you are continuously said that 'we have moved on'. Moved on from what. It is merely your opinion. Don't you get that.

But then again, you have been a pole dancer and a prostitute so i don't expect you to debate on an intelligent level.
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Original post by Chloe xxx
'But beefing up the police force wouldn’t even begin to address the problem that’s at the root of the country’s growing rape crisis: the presence in Norway, and especially in Oslo, of ever-growing numbers of people who have nothing but contempt for Western culture, who have absolutely no concept of respect for members of religions other than their own, and who have been brought up on the idea that women who dare to walk the street alone and without veils covering their faces deserve to be violated.

Not so very many years ago, Oslo was virtually a rape-free city, inhabited by people who had been brought up on civilized notions of mutual respect and tolerance. No longer. Over the years, the incidence of rape has risen steadily. A wildly disproportionate number of the perpetrators are “rejected asylum seekers” which may sound puzzling unless you are aware of the perverse state of affairs whereby even persons officially rejected for asylum in Norway are still allowed to stay. And the increasing temerity of the rapists who know very well that they will probably not be caught, and, if caught, will not be severely punished is reflected in the fact that the most recent rape (in which two men assaulted a 21-year-old woman) took place virtually in the backyard of the Royal Palace.'

Lovely. Europe is vast becoming the diseased arse crack of the planet.


Come join me in China (or that area), the governmnet dont give benefits so there are no muslims (terrorists / rapists) there.
The OP clearly has a hateful obsession with Islam. All the threads hes created are about how Muslims are terrorist/rapists/oppressors/criminals/ evil human beings. I wouldn't even bother trying to argue with him.
Original post by dgeorge
1. There ARE rapists of every colour and ethnicity - there have been other "rapist gangs" and traffickers before

2. I don't see anyone defending these people - what they did was sick and they should be punished to the fullest extent of the law

I'm not sure your point. When Catholics/Christians etc do something wrong, it is due to them. When people of another faith do it, it is somehow down to their religion? You're obviously pushing an extremely biased agenda, just not sure why


That is not what she is doing at all.
Reply 114
How does religion have anything to do with the rapist? Clearly they're stupid, idiotic and immoral people...there's Christian rapisits, Jewish rapists, Hindu rapists etc. But obviously the're not practicing their religion in the proper way, as no religion allows forced sex.
Some White girls are stupid and easy to get with. The guys just exploited that fact. And so what if their muslim? Would it make a diff if they were christians or Buddhists? A rapist is a rapist who is psychologically messed up.....religion got nothing to do with it.....morons:redface:
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Reply 117
Original post by Nightufury
Some White girls are stupid and easy to get with. The guys just exploited that fact. And so what if their muslim? Would it make a diff if they were christians or Buddhists? A rapist is a rapist who is psychologically messed up.....religion got nothing to do with it.....morons:redface:


just like prophet mo exploited the fact that aisha was easy to 'get', you mean ?
Reply 118
Original post by Playa10
For ****s sake look at your previous statements...how can you not see that? You have called me, inter alia, 'vile' 'pig' . I need not elaborate.

And you are continuously said that 'we have moved on'. Moved on from what. It is merely your opinion. Don't you get that.

But then again, you have been a pole dancer and a prostitute so i don't expect you to debate on an intelligent level.


Your the one spouting insults and not giving any links, sources or evidence. Go on, please, finally take up my point of the Islamic Scholars pro wife beating book?

Many prostitutes are in uni, and highly educated, aswell as strippers, whatever i cant be bothered with this debate again.

I said you are pig ignorant and your opinions and statements are vile. I didnt call you a dirty prick or anything else derogatory about your personal self.

it isnt my opinion, how stupid can you get? Western society has moved on when compared to society in places like Iran, Iraq, Saudi, parts of Africa and Pakistan. You cant deny this. I know where I'd much rather live as a woman.
Original post by Kalb
just like prophet mo exploited the fact that aisha was easy to 'get', you mean ?


What you on about you idiot..?...?...?:confused::frown: you got problems brav dont get rude
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