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was this (sexual) abuse?

How do you know that's not what he did? You're probably thinking of fondle. Anyway, as I've said before, I think this was sexual abuse. (This case). So I'm drawing out of the discussion. Nice talking to you.

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MNBStyle

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Anonymous

How do you know that's not what he did? You're probably thinking of fondle. Anyway, as I've said before, I think this was sexual abuse. (This case). So I'm drawing out of the discussion. Nice talking to you.

So now you feel it was sexual abuse???? finally we get through to you now i dont have to discuss this all day :p:

and im sure this person knows the difference between touching and a nipple twist im sure shes not stupid.
End of lol

Reply 62

need_money

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If he had been closer to your age I would have said he was probably just curious and didn't understand it was wrong but being 6 years older than you he must have so yeah I would say that was a form of sexual abuse.

Reply 63

Anonymous #6

A quick post scriptum: dear MNBStyle, I said that I thought it was sexual abuse in this case about 5 posts ago. Even though in my initial posts seemed to state the opposite, that was because it was before I read the OP's posts in detail. Now, I admit I was wrong; the OP's case is most certainly a nasty one. Hope you accept this humble apology for arguing with you (and Jonatan et al). Best wishes in your future ventures.

Reply 64

Jonatan

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Anonymous

What if he pinched her bum. Is that sexual abuse? Pretty much as "sexual" a place. Do you see a brother grabbing a little sisters arse as sexual abuse?

You have to take these things on a case by case basis. A 17 year old brother grabbing his 11 year old sister's arse could very well classify as sexual abuse depending on the circumstances.

Reply 65

MNBStyle

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Anonymous

A quick post scriptum: dear MNBStyle, I said that I thought it was sexual abuse in this case about 5 posts ago. Even though in my initial posts seemed to state the opposite, that was because it was before I read the OP's posts in detail. Now, I admit I was wrong; the OP's case is most certainly a nasty one. Hope you accept this humble apology for arguing with you (and Jonatan et al). Best wishes in your future ventures.

I accept your apology, its 1 week late but still :p:

Reply 66

so_this_is_sam

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im finding this a little disturbing!

Reply 67

technik

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i'd say it was inappropriate. i wouldn't say he abused you.

Reply 68

lifeispeachy

Who-ever posted this, what he did was wrong. OK, it might've started off because he didn't know any better at 12yrs old, but as an older, stronger sibling he was abusing you by doing things i assume you weren't happy with. And especially by 17 he would've known what he was doing was abusing you. You don't seem to be very consciously affected but it sounds like you've been affected deep down because you are now uncomfortable making contact with other people? I haven't studied psycology, but I think it's likely that you're uncertain of people's motives and find it difficult to trust them because of what he's done? You're probably uncertain of how to act with different people now. My advise is to speak to someone professional in confidence, all you have to do is make a appointment to see your GP or phone a help line which you can find info on, on the web. x

Reply 69

fudge77

yer thats sexual abuse! Tell sum1! Good luck!

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