How long would you wait to have sexual intercourse?

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No one said it wasn't. The fact that someone doesn't like to give money to charity is quite selfish but ultimately, its still their concern.

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The joke doesn't work as well if you have to explain it, but anyway, I put her concern being that it was shallow because she didn't want a short penis, which could only facilitate shallow penetration, whereas she wants a big one to get deep.

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PrincessCaspian

With my last boyfriend we waited 3ish months or so and that was weird for me. He was quite shy and didn't initiate, and didn't take a hint very well either :rolleyes:

My current one, we slept together the night we met. I guess it's more down to when feels right. I wouldn't have a 6 date rule or something, it happens when it happens.

Reply 42

username1150116

For my first proper relationship we waited 6 months as everything was new and we took it step by step. I don't know how long I'd wait now, guess it would just come naturally (pun not intended huehuehue)

Reply 43

Anonymous #2

One year. You must first check if they are loyal, if you can rely on them, you must test them in various situations before you take this step.

Reply 44

hemmp

Original post by MostUncivilised

Perhaps 4 hours? As long as it takes to finish dinner and drinks, take the nightbus home and jump in the sack.

My first date with my boyfriend; we caught up for coffee at an art gallery in the afternoon, then went to the pub. When we were suitably drunk, we wandered back to his place and had sex. Then we went out for dinner, and afterwards went back to his place and had sex again. Then we sat up at night drinking and talking about history, and I stayed the night. We woke up and had sex again, then we cooked breakfast and talked about the cricket. That was in the first 24 hours.

Anyone who asks you to "wait" is frightfully tiresome and a bore. If you're not ready for sex, you're not ready for relationships. Anything else is just playing at being an adult.

Before you started to do men, did you you ever do women? If so how much easier are men than women to have casual sex with?

Reply 45

hemmp

My mate waited two years with his Gf, she has him on leash

Reply 46

JayReg

18 months, never again.

Reply 47

reapingunicorn32

I would wait until my partner is ready. There's no need to rush to have sex, it's a nice thing that's worth being saved for the right time.

Reply 48

introvertperson

Original post by reapingunicorn32

I would wait until my partner is ready. There's no need to rush to have sex, it's a nice thing that's worth being saved for the right time.

Agreed!

Reply 49

Eva.Gregoria

Original post by Le Nombre

Yeah...I didn't get it. It was way too ambiguous.

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after marriage

3-5months generally

otherwise something is wrong

on the 50th date

For my first I waited a year :eek:

For my current boyfriend I waited 2 weeks, because it felt right.

Reply 54

usually silent

Original post by Georgiina_Tee

Met mid September, sex in December so about 4 months

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Solid maths

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Reply 55

Jasmineadams

My boyfriend and I waited 6 month, even though we wanted to do it constantly before that, just so we could make sure we knew everything about eachother first. And I personally think we're much better because of it. Average is 4 months first time round though.

Reply 56

Maid Marian

I have no idea, I'd just wait until it felt right.

Reply 57

Capn cas

I think for something casual I wouldn't wait long. But for someone I was genuinely interested in romantically, i'd wait for a little while, or until they are up for it.
Although up to 5 months would be a cut-off point, because then I'd either consider that we are incompatible on the intimate level, or it's taking the piss. :closedeyes: