I have approached a guy before, not a stranger but a friend, with 'intention'. It was a bit scary haha. I did so because I had always liked/wanted him and believed he felt the same, but for certain reasons we had never really attempted anything, but I decided at some point to say frick it to those reasons and make a move.
I don't think I would feel comfortable approaching a stranger without much cause for approach to hide behind, i.e asking for a lighter or something and then continuing from there. I have done that before with strangers whom I wouldn't have
minded trying something with, but it's not the sole reason for my approach, maybe just a part of it or a little 'hope' haha. I'd say if it were to be so, it's because I'm feeling a little bit reckless and confident and happy, so just 'give it a go' hah. I would say my partner and I got together through me 'approaching' him if you're looking at technicals, but on the whole it was more mutual than anything else..
This is not really very true of most of the female posters on the site? At least not in such blunt terms as 'job'.
One minute we're all raging feminazis and the next we're shy, insecure and adhering adamantly to stupid gender roles.
What are we, other than something to generalise and change to suit whatever incorrect point posters feel like making the next time? P: