Okay so, I met this man when I was volunteering at a school. He was basically in charge of me. I've known him for about 3 years now.
He is no longer at the school and is currently working in France. He recently started messaging me frequently and because it was via whatsapp so he can see when I was last online, I responded. So the conservation basically went like this-
(Im the one with the darker shade, he is the lighter)
http://i61.tinypic.com/ehf879.pngContext for the next picture - he was asking me to change my display picture/send him some because apparently he has pictures of all his friends so I responded by saying "one day" because I thought it was an odd request and didn't want to. He also asked what I was doing, the minute I said "in bed" I literally wanted kicked myself for saying it and no, I didn't tell him what I was wearing in bed.
http://i61.tinypic.com/28k6ivc.pngContext for the next picture - He asked me what I was doing today and I told him I will be going to regents park.
http://i60.tinypic.com/a9ocgl.pnghttp://i59.tinypic.com/1zxxqi1.pnghttp://i57.tinypic.com/2199lhk.pngI had no idea what double brown meant but I searched it on urban dictionary after he said the last comment and its either a cheap beer or something to do with anal. I am thinking the latter..
So at this point I was pretty disgusted and creeped out so I started ignoring him. He then messages me like nothing has happened and this is basically what he said and how I responded-
http://i57.tinypic.com/10fu877.pnghttp://i57.tinypic.com/2gtyjjp.pngNow, I am thinking this excuse is a lie - "get your cuteness over here"?
What do you guys think? I feel like I should cut contact but now I am thinking what my reasons would be since he provided a "reason" for the cute ass comment.
Also, am I overreacting? My friend made a joke out of it and said tell him youre a lesbian and you have a Mexican girlfriend
$ I just feel really creeped out because he is older than my dad!!!!!!!!!!!
Lastly, I also want to point out that he was fired from the school (where we met) because he tried to flirt with another really young volunteer (she was 19 or 20) and he was INCREDIBLY inappropriate to her. He had previously mentioned that he likes young women and I had right then said that I would not consider anyone over 25 for a relationship to give him the hint. I am 20 btw.
What do I do? What do I say to him? Please help. I really just want to stop contact but I don't know what I should say. I am also not sure if I am just overreacting, so I basically want unbiased responses.
Thank you.
Thanks for reading all this.