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I desparately need to get laid

I'm 21, virgin, just moved to a new town so know nobody (all my friends live on the other side of the country).

Can I go to a club on my own or is that weird? I am really sex starved, but don't know how I can get some. I am attractive, but was one of those "no sex before marriage" people, but I now realise how silly that is, and I don't believe in it any more.

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Get on tinder. I was a virgin like you. But then I met up with this girl on tinder to watch a movie and we just ****ed instead haha
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Original post by Anti Neutron
Get on tinder. I was a virgin like you. But then I met up with this girl on tinder to watch a movie and we just ****ed instead haha


go on my son
Maybe you should move on and realise that sex is not the be all and end all of life, if you've got blue balls i'm sure your hands will suffice.

Move on, man.
Original post by Anonymous
Maybe you should move on and realise that sex is not the be all and end all of life, if you've got blue balls i'm sure your hands will suffice.

Move on, man.


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Sex is overrated in my opinion

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Why are you so bothered about losing it at a particular age and panicking rather than just doing it with the right person at the right time in a relaxed situation. I'm 20 next week and I'm still a virgin, doesn't bother me cus I know why. I don't do sleeping around as I don't see the point, I have standards and aren't desperate. My first girlfriend when I was 15-16 wanted it but I felt too young, my second couldn't do it for personal reasons and me and my last were meant to but it ended for reasons out of my control but I don't dwell on it, I just see it as it wasn't meant to be but will happen when it feels right. This coming from someone who has a large group of friends of both sexes, and besides 2 all have slept with multiple people. I see why you might think you're way past the age where you should've lost it, but the honest truth is you're the only one who thinks that except for egotistical judgemental idiots. No-one cares, there is no real age when it should be lost, none of my mates judge me, and girls would respect that you've kept it for the right person/time rather than just doing it for the sake of it. What ever, it's your feelings not mine
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Original post by Anonymous
I'm 21, virgin, just moved to a new town so know nobody (all my friends live on the other side of the country).

Can I go to a club on my own or is that weird? I am really sex starved, but don't know how I can get some. I am attractive, but was one of those "no sex before marriage" people, but I now realise how silly that is, and I don't believe in it any more.
Will you die if you don't get laid?
Original post by toonervoustotalk
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Sex is overrated in my opinion

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It's not overrated at all, it's just the media brainwashes it into our youth, with a few exceptions who are intelligent enough to see through it, such as yourself


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How could you possibly know you're sex starved as a virgin? :hmmm:
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Original post by toonervoustotalk
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Sex is overrated in my opinion

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Sure you're not doing it wrong?
Original post by Gax
Sure you're not doing it wrong?


Mate I am a Virgin lol

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Original post by Yeah dude
It's not overrated at all, it's just the media brainwashes it into our youth, with a few exceptions who are intelligent enough to see through it, such as yourself


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:biggrin:

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Original post by toonervoustotalk
Mate I am a Virgin lol

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Then how do you know it's overrated?
Original post by Anonymous
I'm 21, virgin, just moved to a new town so know nobody (all my friends live on the other side of the country).

Can I go to a club on my own or is that weird? I am really sex starved, but don't know how I can get some. I am attractive, but was one of those "no sex before marriage" people, but I now realise how silly that is, and I don't believe in it any more.


Yes you can go to a club on your own. I don't even know if you're male or female.
Original post by leemer
Then how do you know it's overrated?


I don't but the stories some people in college tell me makes me know that it is overrated

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hire an escort if you can't find someone any other way.
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Original post by toonervoustotalk
Mate I am a Virgin lol

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So how can you call it overrated without ever trying it??
Reply 17
Try to meet people and start to build a social circle, then you can go out with them. Try a dance or yoga class if you want to meet girls directly. If you're attractive in a photo, you might have some success on Tinder.

You can go out alone too if you have the stones to do that - you should have some success if you approach a random group and tell them you've just moved to the area and literally know nobody, so you thought you'd just try to come out and see who you meet. If you give a decent impression, people would respect the confidence to do something like that and should be receptive.
Original post by Gax
So how can you call it overrated without ever trying it??


Read my previous post

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Original post by leemer
Then how do you know it's overrated?


This is the same guy who said manuals are more manly than automatics even though he's never driven before :biggrin:

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