Why are you so bothered about losing it at a particular age and panicking rather than just doing it with the right person at the right time in a relaxed situation. I'm 20 next week and I'm still a virgin, doesn't bother me cus I know why. I don't do sleeping around as I don't see the point, I have standards and aren't desperate. My first girlfriend when I was 15-16 wanted it but I felt too young, my second couldn't do it for personal reasons and me and my last were meant to but it ended for reasons out of my control but I don't dwell on it, I just see it as it wasn't meant to be but will happen when it feels right. This coming from someone who has a large group of friends of both sexes, and besides 2 all have slept with multiple people. I see why you might think you're way past the age where you should've lost it, but the honest truth is you're the only one who thinks that except for egotistical judgemental idiots. No-one cares, there is no real age when it should be lost, none of my mates judge me, and girls would respect that you've kept it for the right person/time rather than just doing it for the sake of it. What ever, it's your feelings not mine