Do you believe in bisexuals?

Poll

Could a person be sexually attracted to men AND women?

How many of you beleive that someone can be attracted to both men and women?
I personally think they're just gay ppl too afraid to come out of the closet.

Reply 1

Eblis_O'_Shaughnessy

5

I don't see why tens, if not hundreds of millions of people would lie about it.

Reply 2

nik89

OP

Because they're too afraid to come out of the closet?
and this seems like a sort of "in-betweenish" option for them

Reply 3

Melon1687

Why wouldn't you 'believe' in them? Why can't you like both?

Reply 4

foxo

17

I'd be more inclined to believe that they're heterosexual people "kidding themselves", but never mind.

Reply 5

Eblis_O'_Shaughnessy

5

You think that many people are all afraid to come out of the closet about only liking the same sex, but aren't afraid to admit they do like the same sex as well as the opposite sex?

Seems very unlikely to me.

Reply 6

nik89

OP

But why would a hetrosexual be "kidding himself"? its not like his situation is socially unacceptable is it?
for gay ppl, unfortunately, they're seen as outcasts by so many and maybe would be inclined to "kid themselves" in the process of trying to fit in better

Reply 7

Segat1

16

What do you mean, believe? Like do I believe in Santa Claus, or ghosts?

And what makes you think by declaring yourself to be bisexual that you're in a closet? They're admitting they have a sexual attraction to both sexes. How is that in denial?

Reply 8

nik89

OP

Eblis_O'_Shaughnessy

You think that many people are all afraid to come out of the closet about only liking the same sex, but aren't afraid to admit they do like the same sex as well as the opposite sex?

Seems very unlikely to me.

Nooooo thats not what i'm trying to say. what i'm trying to sa is that there are no people that like "the same sex as well as the opposite sex", these people are infact people who only like the same sex, but are using this "bisexual" thing as a cover....

Reply 9

vixky!

13

They exist, it's not about believing or not believing.

Reply 10

Eblis_O'_Shaughnessy

5

nik89

Nooooo thats not what i'm trying to say. what i'm trying to sa is that there are no people that like "the same sex as well as the opposite sex", these people are infact people who only like the same sex, but are using this "bisexual" thing as a cover....

Which is exactly what I just questioned. Read it again:

You think that many people are all afraid to come out of the closet about only liking the same sex, but aren't afraid to admit they do like the same sex as well as the opposite sex?

Reply 11

rosetinted

2

nik89

I personally think they're just gay ppl too afraid to come out of the closet.

What would make you a great authority on the matter?

Reply 12

suneilr

3

As a cover for what exactly? They're admitting they like the same sex so they're hardly trying to cover that up.

Reply 13

nik89

OP

Eblis_O'_Shaughnessy

Which is exactly what I just questioned. Read it again:

You think that many people are all afraid to come out of the closet about only liking the same sex, but aren't afraid to admit they do like the same sex as well as the opposite sex?

Oh....sorry i read it wrong the first time.

well yeah thats what i think it is

Reply 14

foxo

17

nik89

But why would a hetrosexual be "kidding himself"? its not like his situation is socially unacceptable is it?
for gay ppl, unfortunately, they're seen as outcasts by so many and maybe would be inclined to "kid themselves" in the process of trying to fit in better

Give your average heterosexual sex-deprived teenager the chance to screw, and quite often they'll take it regardless of the gender, putting it down to "confusion" later in life. :wink:

Reply 15

nik89

OP

rosetinted

What would make you a great authority on the matter?

Nothing. I'm not a great authority.
I'm just stating my opinion and trying to start an interesting debate.

Reply 16

rosetinted

2

nik89

Nooooo thats not what i'm trying to say. what i'm trying to sa is that there are no people that like "the same sex as well as the opposite sex", these people are infact people who only like the same sex, but are using this "bisexual" thing as a cover....

So you think that people say "I sleep with people of both sexes" to cover up the fact that they sleep with people of the same sex? Makes no sense.

Reply 17

SmuUsh

There are people who like bothe sex. I myself do I was almost in a long term relationship with a girl once just some guy got me before she had the chance But what makes you think its just gay people disguising it?

Reply 18

nik89

OP

foxo

Give your average heterosexual sex-deprived teenager the chance to screw, and quite often they'll take it regardless of the gender, putting it down to "confusion" later in life. :wink:

Interesting point

Reply 19

Sithius

16

nik89