Scared about having a relationship and sex

People go at different speeds. I've had zero relationships/kissing/anything vaguely sexual and I'm 18. Fairly content to stay that way. Just tell your friend to back off. You'll know when you're ready and no amount of meaningless awkward sex is going to make that any sooner.

I'm scared about getting close with someone because I feel like I don't know what to do? I'm 20 years old and I've never had a serious relationship (which means I'm still a virgin) but I'm so nervous to get into one. Like I feel like I want a relationship but when a boy starts talking to me or a friend tries to set me up with someone I get so nervous and push them away because number 1; I have no self confidence and 2; I'm unexperienced and I'll have no idea what to do.


I've only had 1 relationship in my life and I was 16, he was definitely moving too fast for my liking and within 2 weeks of being in a relationship with him he was pressuring me into having sex and I really wasn't ready. That ended badly and sines then I have found no one and no one is interested in me.


I feel so stupid because I'm 20 and a virgin and have never had a proper relationship and now I'm 20 I feel like no one will want me because I've had no experience with a relationship.


My friends now trying to set me up with her friend because I need to experience a one night stand, but it's not me at all and she doesn't realise it. It's putting me of more because he's 26 (probably with plenty of experience) and I know he's had many of one night stands so I feel like I'd get judged?


I really don't know why I feel this was about relationships and sex, like I feel like I am ready when I think about it but when I talk to someone I'm really not.

Hey I feel the exact same, I have been talking to this guy for nearly 3 years and I am terrified to do anything with him, he's really sweet and he's very into me, but I don't know if i feel the same. I don't find him that attractive but he has a good personality. Any advice on what I should I do ???

If it hasn't gone anywhere in 3 years, it is unlikely to! - Stay as friends though!

I'm scared about getting close with someone because I feel like I don't know what to do? I'm 20 years old and I've never had a serious relationship (which means I'm still a virgin) but I'm so nervous to get into one. Like I feel like I want a relationship but when a boy starts talking to me or a friend tries to set me up with someone I get so nervous and push them away because number 1; I have no self confidence and 2; I'm unexperienced and I'll have no idea what to do.


I've only had 1 relationship in my life and I was 16, he was definitely moving too fast for my liking and within 2 weeks of being in a relationship with him he was pressuring me into having sex and I really wasn't ready. That ended badly and sines then I have found no one and no one is interested in me.


I feel so stupid because I'm 20 and a virgin and have never had a proper relationship and now I'm 20 I feel like no one will want me because I've had no experience with a relationship.


My friends now trying to set me up with her friend because I need to experience a one night stand, but it's not me at all and she doesn't realise it. It's putting me of more because he's 26 (probably with plenty of experience) and I know he's had many of one night stands so I feel like I'd get judged?


I really don't know why I feel this was about relationships and sex, like I feel like I am ready when I think about it but when I talk to someone I'm really not.