I never seem to get called good looking or intelligent, this makes me feel sad :(

Dreaming about being different from how he is will not do anything for his confidence.

The first step to being confident is being introspective and knowing fine well what your best qualities and worst qualities are, making adjustments where possible and then making the best out of what you have thereafter.

With that comes an inevitable confidence boost and with confidence life is much easier.

Why do you value sexual attractivity and intelligence over your other qualities? Merely because you lack them? Are you charismatic? Empathetic? Moral? All very good qualities. They will take you quite far in life too.

certainly, but I honestly think OP is so anxious and insecure that he needs counselling to learn how to implement what you just said-then from there, he can project higher value.

I dunno really, in real life with the people I'm close to I seem fine & normal, it's just when I'm on that I can feel a bit down. I need to somehow create a positive mindset & make sure that I'm the best person I can be. Some people might still not appreciate me but then I guess I just have to surround myself around people that do & give off positive vibes!

so the problem is the Internet, but like me you keep coming back for more? Definitely underlying insecurities and it's residue of your social anxiety on the periphery I guarantee

Please, just consider what I said. They can help you set very tangible goals to reach confidence.

Haha give it to him give truth make it hurt until he changes

Seriously you should call the Samaritans, im worried for you.

Sorry that was supposed to say "on my own" haha Well I just go on the internet to pass the time really, as atm I don't work that many hours plus don't know many people to hang out with at this exact moment in time. I will consider it aha

I was having quite intense thoughts earlier, Ive now mellowed out but need to get the confidence to come off the computer. Which I seem to lack :/

edit: I doubt this 'is X better than Y' thing is going to get put to bed overnight mind

If these thoughts are causing you to self harm I seriously recommend you seek help as a matter of urgency. And not from tsr.

not recently, a few months ago around summer when I was neck-deep in Redpill…I think I was making a point today that's all. But thank you for your concern.

I haven't quit on life aha I've still been following the thread. I just wanted to get a gauge all the views of different people. Some people are more blunt then others that's for sure I'm thankful for the positive replies though I don't think I've posted that many "self pitying" threads to be honest & certainly not recently.

It's just that I can't help the way I feel sometimes & feel a bit trapped with not many other people for support, however I admit positing a thread with a bunch of strangers might not be the best place as there's bound to be some replies that might hurt me inside. However I guess I just have to grow a thicker skin & deal with it. Hopefully it will make me stronger as a person

can you explain which is the way it goes, the last sentence of my post?

The first part of your post. The "sympathy comments are lies" bit isn't true in my opinion, as lying requires a deceptive intent, which I don't believe is the case here.

keep calm and play little big planet.

Aye it's a tricky one. Redpill has no soul mind.

Can you tell me where you were going what 'what do you consider good enough, when will you be good enough'?

what if sack people are more aesthetic than u

All your threads on TSR just reeks of desperation mate...seriously get a grip and sort your life out.